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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
3 points

Just curious did you tell her you stutter before meeting in person? Bro I'm not gonna lie to you but it feels like if you stutter (depending on how bad) it can greatly limit options in life from caree...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
4 points

Hang in there dude, you can bounce back from this. I’d bet my next paycheck this was because you took that long of a break. Similar thing happened to me. When I was a young man, I found a rhythm with...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
11 points

I know you may not appreciate this now but our stutter is a kind of personality detector, it shows how other people are and she is definitely not worth your time. The other guys insight was spot on,...

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postr/StutterDec 21, 2024
23 points

Anxiety and stuttering just led to one of the most humiliating nights of my life

Anxiety and stuttering just led to one of the most humiliating nights of my life For the past few years I'd been working on dealing with my stutter, anxiety, and on general self improvement. I thought...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
1 points

The girl I'm dating finds my stutter cute. You'll find the right girl soon...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
1 points

How are you approaching? What are you saying? Do you normally have speech blocks when you approach or not really? Do you gauge the interest level of the girls before you approach or you do you approac...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
2 points

I know of someone who used the excuse if speech therapy when meeting women in bars. He’d tell them he’s in speech therapy and asks if she wouldn’t mind that they chat for a while so he could practice ...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
-1 points

I mean, if the stutter is not the reason for poor dating life, then what is? You can't say that stuttering is not a problem at all....

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2024
8 points

Dude. Don't let your stutter define your dating life. Been stuttering all my life, been laughed at, and treated like a retard. Yet, I've been in 5 relationships, and could have more if I weren't so du...

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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2024
9 points

You don’t need to change a thing bud. Chicks dig stutterers, you just need to be yourself and treat them well. Don’t worry about it, you’ll find the right lady...

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postr/StutterDec 20, 2024
18 points

Guy told me my stutter is the cause of my dating life

Guy told me my stutter is the cause of my dating life Hello everyone. A guy I knew was asking about my dating life. I’m 24 , never really had a date and I do approach. He told me I was good looking a...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
4 points

I'm not sure what more to say. The most attractive thing about a person is the love they have for their self. If you are self-loathing because you stutter, how could you expect someone else to love yo...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
8 points

Become the strong, silent type. If that doesn't work, just learn to love yourself, and you'll find someone who loves you. Self-loathing is a huge turn off for guys or girls. My wife just started doing...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
7 points

I second this. I power through my stutter, laugh and joke about it, and it really doesn't affect my dating life. I honestly thing women see the confidence through it. I have also been told plenty of t...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
7 points

I would put it on your dating profile. You won’t need to break the ice that way with a block. I have a block stutter, not as bad as yours I feel, and it was difficult when I met my wife but she loves ...

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commentr/StutterDec 19, 2024
3 points

If you get the solution, please tell me cause the last time i was talking to this beautiful lady sitting beside me and i blocked so hard while telling her what the time was when she asked me made me s...

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postr/StutterDec 19, 2024
20 points

How to flirt with a girl if you stutter?

How to flirt with a girl if you stutter? I'm 21 years old and I stutter, I stutter a lot, blocking out words and sometimes prolonging them, when I'm very nervous I can't speak because I hold my breath...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
2 points

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years, and we’ve never talked about it. And somehow I’m not worried about it - he clearly knows. I stuttered multiple times in front of him, and he always takes it su...

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commentr/StutterDec 17, 2024
6 points

If you're feeling lonely and alone, then try going out. Even if you're alone, go see a movie, go eat at a restaurant. Go to some event near you like an art show, tabletop gaming night, etc etc. You ...

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commentr/StutterDec 15, 2024
2 points

The idea of me without stutter just amazes me of what I would have been capable of—I would have done presentations without being anxious, I would have had plentiful friends, I would have asked that gi...

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