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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2025
8 points

To be fair , OP said speak freely, not stutter less. I guess you can interpret that however you want...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
1 points

that's what I thought too. it was weird. when they videoed me on my first day I hardly stuttered. even on my name....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
1 points

Not caring about anyone is not the solution, tbh when I stutter it sucks but I just laugh it off, at the end of the day no one will make of you more than yourself, so better to not give it the chance....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
8 points

I completely agree with you. Growing up, I stuttered equally in all situations—it didn’t matter who I was speaking to. Even when I was alone, I still stuttered the same way. As I got older, I practice...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
2 points

I disagree it's ok to stutter. You do not want to stutter in the real world. I don't like this new trend of accepting that it is "cool" or "ok" to stutter. And if you're male especially, trust you do ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
2 points

Confidence- it's very easy to say but so difficult to actually do. I spent 7 years working in a different country and my confidence soared. As a result, my stutter almost completely disappeared. I mov...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
7 points

I understand what you’re saying, but saying that “great people overcome adversity” does kind of imply that those who can’t or choose not to are the opposite. When people stop treating me in a way th...

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Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
4 points

There are still many great people who stutter who have overcome adversity from stuttering AND openly stutter, and i think that's OP's point. And to continue that point, unfortunately we don't see that...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
2 points

No one was calling you weak. You're setting up some false dichotomies here. Because I advocate for fluency, doesn't mean it's the only narrative out there. I never said I was against acceptance. Jus...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
2 points

I believe as what birdcore has posted that once you are in that mindset of I do not give a fuck mentality that it reduces the pressures and stresses off a PWS a great amount. It might not "cure" stut...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
9 points

Not at all, I just don’t think it’s fair that this is the only narrative people choose to push. I have nothing against those who want to alleviate their stutter but also they shouldn’t feel forced int...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
8 points

You see enemies where there are none. It sounds like you are taking your discomfort with your fluency and attributing it towards others. Stuttering isn't wrong. But it is an impediment. If you can...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
13 points

what's your definition of great people and are celebrities considered great people? My take is that celebrities have big egos, and it's a story that sounds good. The fact is that 85% of children gro...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
9 points

It makes our voices more palettable for fluent people if we “overcome” our stutters, so they won’t even give us a seat at the table in the first place if we choose to stutter freely....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
2 points

Because great people overcome adversity. Stuttering is a detriment. I don't think anyone here would argue otherwise. It is 100% ok to stutter. But being able to manage or reduce one's stutter is gen...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
3 points

And this community isn’t fooling him into thinking there is no hope as they are literally telling him to try and accept it....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
3 points

To get better at speaking I stopped giving a fuck. All these speaking techniques were just making me more anxious, which in turn heightened my stutter. I stopped worrying and trying to cure myself and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
3 points

There’s no official cure (i.e., treatment) for stuttering recovery, but some people do experience stuttering remission under certain conditions, like practicing desensitization, mindfulness, or making...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingOnset & Life-Stage Changes+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
1 points

This could be some hormone issue too, get your testosterone levels checked once. The best way to cure stutter is let it be, don't fight it trust me it'll get worse...

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commentr/StutterJan 8, 2025
3 points

No it's not. It's the same if someone is obese or too skinny. To gain or to lose weight, it takes time and effort, and if you stop, it may go back. The same with stutter. You either accept it, or do s...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking