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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2021
16 points

Awesome - always makes me feel warm and fuzzy when I speak normally to strangers. A lifting of the dread....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
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postr/StutterJan 19, 2021
10 points

First post and a little of positivity from me

First post and a little of positivity from me Hey guys, I'm 22M and have a slight to mild stutter which mainly consists on small blocks every sentence or two (a few longer blocks but these are rarer)....

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
3 points

Thanks for motivating me, will pick up my routines also! Quarantine fricked everything up, but I think I can do better than this. Thanks bud :)...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
10 points

Yes definitely, some weeks I feel soo confident because I haven't stuttered much or because people haven't really picked up on it, I take the opportunity to book awaited appointments, order takeaways ...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
1 points

I agree with 90% of this response however I would not categorize my stutter as a "weakness". I would categorize it as a strength because I've gained strength, courage, resilience and empathy. Thos...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much. I'm scared of going outside my comfort zone but I will have to move when it's time. I have to make change happen. It must be nice to meet the person. No one stutters like me...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2021
6 points

My mom stutters (not as bad as me though) and well, it sucks, but I wouldn't put off having kids for that reason. ​ 1. It might not even happen. I have siblings that don't stutter. 2. It ...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
2 points

I mean, I’m gay and don’t ever want kids. But I don’t think it works like that? I don’t believe it is genetic, no one else in my family does it that I know of. Certainly not my parents. And I’m laughi...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
12 points

Of course it’s a valid fear. I was worried about it too before I had my son 12 years ago, but unfortunately I don't think there's anything anyone can say to put your mind at ease. Hell, my kid talks f...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

You’re Welcome, if you ever want to talk or just vent let me know. I always felt that sometimes it’s through the tension and discomfort that we grow.. which is why change is so uncomfortable in some r...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

It's not just the challenge I had in mind. I guess I will try to challenge myself again. Your comment made me smile, thank you✨....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

This is making me cry. Thank you so much for this thoughtful advice. It's really hard to not make it define who I am because I love talking so much and I can't even engage in what I love doing. I ...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
2 points

Please, I urge you to not give up. I know it can be discouraging but you owe it to yourself to push through. I’m 25 and have stuttered my entire life.. and I let my stutter dissuade me from pursuing m...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

I think you are completely spot on. I want to remedy it. I will try start the Lee course soon. I really need to fix this. I can't go on like this all my life....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
3 points

More than people i care about my fluency. What do i do with this feeling that i just want to talk normally like everyone else does?...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
1 points

Well u can either cry that u dont have control over it or at least try to do something. Fuck studies, if there is one study that says something i can bet that there is a study thats say the exact opos...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
2 points

Hey, you're not alone. I've been in this spot as well. Feeling so isolated like no one gets me. That's what happens when we let stuttering control us for a long time.. its starts to poison our perce...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
0 points

Talking to yourself is the technique to get confidence. If u can say your name 1000x to yourself u will be pretty confident to talk to other people. I was the say and this really helped me. But from t...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
0 points

Man, he probably didnt care. Practice slowly speaking with yourself. Over time u will get more and more confident. I was the same. I dont want to be mean or anything but u can either stop crying and d...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
2 points

Nah man why do u think this way. If u dont value yourself how will people value u? Why do u stutter ? Because u yourself make yourself nervous. Start thinking positivly that u can say things without s...

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