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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Don't worry about the speech, what ever happens happens, no sense in worrying about what's out of your control.  But how we react to it is within our control.  We can still smile after.  If you want t...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
1 points

Not smarter. Possibly more experienced. I was a never-a-fluent-sentence stutterer. Eyes-shut, run-out-of-breath blocks. Wasn't until my mid-to-late 20's that I got fluent. That was a lifetime ago. ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2025
3 points

OP Score!!! You told him and by doing so you nicely put speech things on the table. It’s like, “this is me and if I hiccup a little (or a lot) with my speech it’s okay.” In my judgment that’s a terrif...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

It wasn't meant to showcase any sort of technique honestly. I don't recommend techniques. I guess there are some fall backs that may make things easier like a little breath out with sound to start o...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

Mind over matter, the mind is a powerful thing! I wouldn't say for anyone to get your hopes up but just understand the possibilities after the fact. Stuttering happens, it's hard to control...but th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
-3 points

Life is about defying odds, its about winning, beating stuttering is viewed as impossible by scientists because they only look for physical cures The real cure is mental. The real cure is clawing yo...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

Humans are biologically hardwired to work towards social praise and respect. It’s not that we *think* people will judge us negatively. We’ve been getting mocked for how we speak and outcasted (mistak...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. You need new friends. The ones you describe aren’t friends. Friends don’t hurt each other. If you’re in high schools you, can you join clubs that share yo...

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commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2025
1 points

I was a stutterer for 21 years, I managed to overcome it and embrace fluency with Lee Lovett's Book ( how to stop stuttering and love speaking ), and There is also an app that will really help you ( ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

I know it’s hard as a woman but as someone who went to school for STEM, you cannot be afraid to speak. Your words may not come out the way they want but if you still talk, those around you will respec...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
2 points

Learn about neuroplasticity and how you can change the inside of your brain. I believe the tricky part is not to understand something very complex but to learn how to unlearn something that is very h...

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postr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
17 points

I found a fix ( i think )

I found a fix ( i think ) Im 16, stuttered since 10 years old My stutter isnt over yet, and the progress ive made is minimal, since ive tried this ( about 2 weeks ) Anyway, my tasklist to beat this,...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
2 points

30F, have stuttered since I could talk! I still have lots of ups and downs, but I feel strongly it is all about confidence. Once you decide to not give a heck if you stutter on a word or if you don’t ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
2 points

I have struggled in the past but, at 45, I’m in a far more confident position. So, some suggestions: -Confidence is a skill so it needs work. I love Nate Zinsser’s book and ideas. It’s helped me trem...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2025
1 points

It is always sad to see people wanting to go easier because of their stutter but trust me that feeling can extend to anyone.  My cousin wanted to change to a gym instructor from a physician assistant ...

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postr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
7 points

A moral

A moral I just wanna share a moral with you And especially to the people who work for their fluency cuz I am one of theim The moral is FLUENCY IN A JOURNEY AND NOT A GAOL so keep going guys even if ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

this is a clue. You CAN have the same confidence all the time. Alcohol simply removes your inhibition and loosens you up, and you can recreate this effect using other means. Normally our stutter get...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
1 points

Absolutely the same for me. Like I saw in a few replies, it’s the mental aspect that makes a huge huge difference. We just don’t care if we’re having a good buzz. I like the idea that someone mentione...

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commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2025
7 points

I can definitely relate. A couple beers or cocktails and I can be the life of the party. Hell my Spanish speaking skills even goes from basic (maybe 1st grade) to something more reflective of someone ...

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2025
3 points

I was in 5th standard. I stammered like a joke. I was totally lost and felt shattered that day. I conciously took one decision telling "I'm going to be competitive, no matter what" From then I scored...

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