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I have struggled in the past but, at 45, I’m in a far more confident position. So, some suggestions: -Confidence is a skill so it needs work. I love Nate Zinsser’s book and ideas. It’s helped me tremendously. One idea he uses is to create a bank account of every success you have in, for you and i, the sport of speaking. (He uses a lot of sporting metaphors). I update this every day and refer to it before I present to an audience. -Use your hands when presenting. This ties in with Amy Cuddy’s ideas around owning the space. I present weekly to people, adults and kids, and I find exaggerating this helps me be assertive and own that space. Stuttering confidently is much better than doing it nervously - at least, that’s my experience. -The more you do it - presenting - for me at least, the less I give a damn about other people. It’s your moment. Believe you 100% deserve to be there. I left law many years ago because, in part, I lacked self-confidence due to my stammer. I lacked self-belief. However, in a different field, I’m smashing it. So, find something you really want to do, like business, and absolutely go for it, stammering or not. Personally, Nate Zinsser’s book has been transformative but it may not resonate. Try listening to his ideas on a podcast maybe. Good luck buddy!