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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
8 points

I just hated school because of the trauma it gave me and this has made me socially very awkward as a grown adult . I just curse myself everyday for being this miserable thanks to this disability NGL ....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2024
2 points

When I started working on my stutter my main goal wasn't to deal with the stutter itself, it was after the fact. I hated how I felt after even though I knew I'd always make it out the other end. And...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
3 points

Hang in there my stutter is worse for some reason I used to not care, now I get really frustrated when I stutter and mostly avoid talking when I don’t have to. Plus is anyone here from NYC?...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
1 points

To be honest i struggle with it too every day, best for me is to shout alone so hard you feel tired, then continue to live another day hoping you will win a lottery of sorts one day...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
2 points

Very relatable, it is draining. Speaking is meant to be enjoyable and fun, but for us stutterers its unpleasant...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
2 points

I resonate with this so much 🫂… at times It just saps the vitality out of me.. due to the “mental pressure”. Hope it gets better for ya 💪🏾...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
1 points

This happens to me. I literally have to show people my ID sometimes and they look at me like I’m crazy. This is the next level of frustration. It comes and goes and I go through stages and waves of i...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerCycles & RandomnessSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterOct 11, 2024
39 points

How do you keep from being cynical, angry and bitter about the hand you've been dealt?

How do you keep from being cynical, angry and bitter about the hand you've been dealt? I find myself getting jealous of my colleagues, friends and cousins. I know i should not compare myself but somet...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2024
12 points

I also get pain in my jaws, headache and so much frustration from stuttering. I almost always need a day of silence afterwards...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
2 points

my name starts with M, which is usually the hardest syllable to say without a block. it gets frustrating...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
1 points

Nothing mate feel bad about it , try to speak normal & fail , try more, fail. repeat. its great if you can achieve the mental state where you realize how we speak is not matters it's actually what are...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2024
2 points

It's completely understandable to feel the way you do right now. Stuttering or getting stuck in moments like that can feel incredibly frustrating, especially when you're just trying to help someone ou...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2024
32 points

Yep know the feeling, it's just like someone stopping you and asking for directions, you end up so embarrassed and hating yourself after. totally ruins your day.....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2024
0 points

Doesn't always work. I've had grown adults laugh at me when I'm trying to introduce myself for the first time. I was nervous to speak because I hate introducing myself, but there was no respect or d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
10 points

I feel your pain , Hang on in there. Things will get better if you don’t care what people think. If someone reacts to you in a negative way, get angry and you’ll be able to control your stutter better...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

Bro I deal with the same thing. I’m 23. I’m just now realizing that people who don’t understand or are just immature are just gonna treat us like that. And I used to just feel so bad about myself, emb...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
16 points

and this is kind of why I hate that one senior woman at my previous work who tried to cancel my presentation without checking with me, claimed she was doing me a favor. She was obsessed with me in a c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
0 points

That is exactly my experience. I only stutter when frustrated or when I feel like I’m not being listened to....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerListener Reactions
postr/StutterOct 1, 2024
6 points

Hurting Jaw

Hurting Jaw Hi, I tend to tense my mouth when I talk, I've done this for many years, and it's really hard for me to not do it. I get headaches from it, and my whole jam feels sore. I am feeling help...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
17 points

If you were in front of me, I would slap you straight up…to bring you back to reality. Dude..we all have gone through this. It’s not the end of the world. You need good friends to support you If ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressValidation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger