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postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
14 points

Stuttered in class

Stuttered in class So today is my first day of classes for the new semester. I went to class today trying to hype myself up for the introduction part but when it came to my turn I just couldn’t do it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
14 points

I feel you on that bro. Hate when I stutter even when talking to the people I’m most comfortable with. Glad I’m graduating college this semester....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

It’s ok everybody has bombed a job interview sometime in their life. Even people who don’t stutter. The more you interview the better you’ll get at it. One thing that helps me is before i start the in...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

I understand you, have the same problems in high school, i feel like lost my friends for no started interaction with they, it for fear fear of stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
5 points

Same here. I’m 40 and don’t stutter much these days, but the possibility of having a block is always on my mind when talking in front of a group. I’m also returning to school this week to begin a new ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

In the same boat as you. I think all my classes this semester require participation but there’s one class in particular where I have to give a 25 min final presentation (it’s a group one tho) and mult...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
3 points

That's what I do. I'm now 43 redoing uni online and my once severe stutter is now mild, but still I don't avoid the meetings or speaking assignments. I tell any group members that I stutter and to jus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
7 points

I feel like stuttering is making me loss my friends I had made.

I feel like stuttering is making me loss my friends I had made. So last year sept 2022 i moved to a new city for my bachelor's degree and everything was going well for a like one or two months, but th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
5 points

I've always tried to face my fears head on. But I understand that is easier said then done especially in a school/ college environment. I think if it is negatively impacting the rest of your life you ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
9 points

Should I drop this class that requires heavy participation and presentations?

Should I drop this class that requires heavy participation and presentations? This semester I have a class that requires heavy class participation and presentations. My stutter along with social anxie...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

You fluently told you're nervous and other sorries because you are comfortable in owning that. You are comfortable being nervous in front of people hence you were able to tell that fluently. I think ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
2 points

For me personally: What makes it worse: talking to family (don’t know why), talking to crowds ex. class presentation (nervous/anxious etc, heart rate def increases), calling on the phone (nervous mayb...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

Thanks for such an informative comment. I will try all those steps. As you said, I do feel extremely nervous and mostly have blocks rather than repetitions. I think it's because I want to hide my st...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
6 points

I'm 27(f) now and was a serial dater until I met my current bf. All through my 20s, I did the dating app scene and all I can say is that any guy who does not know how to react to a stutter is an emoti...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

As others have said, a silent block is one of the three types of primary stuttering behaviors. The other two are repetitions and prolongations. But however you want to describe it or talk about it, i...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
7 points

I'm on SSRI for years and had a bad block last week in a meeting. Couldn't say the person's name. Eventually stuttered and got it out. And I don't stutter most of the time except when I pych myself ou...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

Stuttering is not only repetition, blocking is also part of it. I'm the same as you, as in I block mostly in anxious situations, like presentations and interviews. What I noticed is that, in my case,...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
postr/StutterJan 22, 2023
11 points

Dating advice?

Dating advice? Does anyone have any dating advice for people with stutters? I've tried the online dating scene but I'm very self conscious about my stutter and feel like I can't possibly be perceived ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 22, 2023
16 points

What is this? I don't stutter, but I "block", and it only happens when I'm anxious. The anxiety can be due to speaking in front of a crowd, or it can be anticipatory anxiety about a certain word that begins with a certain letter that I know I've blocked on in the past.

What is this? I don't stutter, but I "block", and it only happens when I'm anxious. The anxiety can be due to speaking in front of a crowd, or it can be anticipatory anxiety about a certain word that ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringFeared Words & Names+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
1 points

In person I talk mostly normally, no issues. On the phone I stammer a lot if it's not a close friend because I feel like people are busy and need to rush through it. I even sometimes stammer on the ph...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentRepetitions & Prolongations