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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
4 points

If you'll wipe yourself out, it won't change anything, on the contrary your mom will be destroyed as well as all the people you know and who love you will be destroyed. You are working as a cashier? ...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

If you dont feel comfortable telling his authorities just write it on a note to them. That way they can obviously see your stutter is a bigger difficulty than what they can see. Explain even on the le...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
14 points

Dude take action. You not calling him out is unfair to everyone who stutters. Report him to the seniors....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
11 points

Some people are childish and immature irrespective of age, you will meet spoiled apples like that sometimes in life, just see his as a lost person, let god judge him, and if possible talk to the upper...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
31 points

That's infuriating. I would write a tactful email calling him out for being so insensitive and maybe link some stuttering 101 article....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
1 points

Reading that people still say this useless stuff to us stutterers is sort of annoying.....when will people ever know better!!!...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2024
1 points

Are we still hearing this garbage spewed by ignorant people!!!! Just write down on paper "dont tell me any of that crap that is useless....walk away if you are annoyed because you are not worth my ti...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2024
7 points

Do what you want to do. Don't give a shit about people who can't wait 30 seconds or more for you to finish your sentence. You are much more than a person who stutters. You are a beautiful individual. ...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

I’ve always wondered if I were to have a severe head trauma and lost my memory, would I stutter? Does my memory tell me to stutter or is my stuttering a defect in my brain? Recent studies have indicat...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
0 points

Start the speech with… This is going to be a very long speech. I stammer. Sit down and relax. Seriously, speak from the heart. You’re the best man—literally and figuratively. Just be you. Stammer an...

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commentr/StutterJul 5, 2024
1 points

Honestly I disagree with this comment aside from the message part.. If OP wants to highlight their stutter go for it but it's not about OP and their stutter.. It's about the Bride and the Groom. As si...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2024
4 points

I get it. But you are not unable to say all you want because of your stutter it just takes a bit longer. Keep talking and stutter as much as you need to but make sure to let your voice be heard and sa...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
2 points

Agreed! In work and academic environments people are already less likely to listen to women and more likely to interrupt them. Not only have I had to learn how to speak more fluently, but I’ve had to ...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
12 points

The fact that you showed up and did it is an amazing thing. Celebrate yourself! But I agree with others that self advocacy is such a key part of interviewing I just interviewed for a teaching job ...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
1 points

For me I had to decide that if 100 people a day make fun of me that’s just gunna have to be okay with me. What could they say? You’re dumb, sound dumb, look dumb, are dumb… and on and on. Okay.. well ...

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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2024
6 points

As a woman who stutters I feel like my personality is intimidating enough to keep the majority of haters at bay. I’m very loud, very outspoken, very… nonchalant? but I can become very protective/defen...

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commentr/StutterJun 30, 2024
1 points

Other people read these threads. It’s important for them to be aware that there are formal, professional evidence-backed alternatives to the often inaccurate perception that your listeners are being ...

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commentr/stutteringJun 29, 2024
5 points

I’m 33 and relate to everything you said. People always tell me to slow down and take a breath and that shit doesn’t work. For me at least. The past few years I’ve just been telling people hey I have ...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2024
12 points

at first I got angry and I told him to fuck off, then I sent the video to my country's stuttering association and they communicated with him and then he took down the video. I asked them what did he s...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
3 points

I can say that when I was much less fluent, it could be helpful at times. These days, although it never really happens anymore, I'd set a hard boundary and ask them to let me finish/get through it. It...

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