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postr/StutterNov 3, 2025
21 points

Solidarity

Solidarity I just wanted to introduce myself, as I’ve been a longtime lurker and a lifelong stutterer. I’m currently in my early thirties and working in Fintech as a software engineer. On the outsid...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
6 points

I have had that problem my whole entire life, I have a bachelor's in computer science and instead of getting those jobs I get warehouse, production and assembly jobs instead and being denied to level ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
1 points

I am exactly the same. I feel like social anxiety has genuinely very little impact on my speech. It definitely does but I stammer almost the same if I’m cuddled in bed or at work with people. I know e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
2 points

Hands down, depends on your situation. A symptom of social anxiety is stuttering, but the hardest part of having a stutter is we might never know the exact cause, everyone’s different and research is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
1 points

That’s a really good question, and one a lot of people who stutter quietly wonder about. Stuttering when you’re alone doesn’t necessarily mean there’s a physical problem. Stuttering is a complex mix ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainFluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
1 points

Its okay don't stress too hard it might seem very bleak now but it does improve overtime. It was the same with me. I actually started stuttering very late as well...around the same age as you in grade...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2025
1 points

Sales and estimates, talk on the phone, knock on the door and chat with them, things I used to think were never going to be for me.  Went from computer science (to work more on the back end) and cla...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2025
3 points

We’re all stutterers here. It’s our way of life. Welcome....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2025
2 points

Yeah that's relatable for me too, the pressure and the guilt, i guess for me it came from the wrong way to deal with the issue when i was young that what was in my head its my fault to stutter which d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

Your last few sentences are the problem . The first step is accepting it's apart of you. it's not impossible to make it in life with it. But u gotta be realistic. It's apart of you...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
3 points

And that's your first mistake. There's no other option. You have to be optimistic in life, but with the idea that your speech impediment will stay with you forever....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
2 points

Ah okay. I guess I’ve rewired my brain to some extent. I’m way more fluent than when I was a kid. But there are times when I still stutter, which is why I say I *am* a person who stutters. I’m good wi...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
3 points

For me the worst thing about stuttering was the fear of speaking to people. I was ashamed. Over the years I did all the things to mask it and I became an expert it hiding it. My wife just asked me w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

Accountability partner wanted -- working through ARTS (Avoidance Reduction Therapy for Stuttering)

Accountability partner wanted -- working through ARTS (Avoidance Reduction Therapy for Stuttering) A little about me -- I'm 37, around 8% disfluency, and wanting to fully confront my speech head-on. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

I feel like wishing you were nonverbal/deaf is something basically everyone who stutters has done at sometime in their life which is kinda weird because objectively being nonverbal or deaf is probably...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

There's no saving you,  you're too negative. He's not a random dude, he's being working on his method for decades. Willian d parry. Research for gods sake. tourrete syndrome is another beast of its ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
1 points

Stuttering is an “umbrella” word for similar symptoms but different root causes. Some get significantly better with certain methods and some not. Don’t compare yourself to others, stuttering is a very...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2025
2 points

You're probably at the worst age for dealing it with it socially. It will get better. Being upfront about it and not letting it be something you or anyone else are afraid to mention helps alot. It's...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
3 points

I'm a man, I'm 19, and I've never had a girlfriend either, but I'm in an online group for people who stutter, and I've noticed that half of them are actively dating. In other words, although it may se...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2025
5 points

In the professors case, as he gets more comfortable, he can always find ways to alleviate any issues students may have like notes and good references to the material and so much more.  We have had iss...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Positive Therapy TechniquesIdentity & Self-PerceptionCycles & Randomness