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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
0 points

She forewarned him how is it disrespectful. It see,s more of immaturity thing then a disrespectful/cruel thing so again don’t be sensitive if she giggles...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

Not necessarily bad on her part. She may be trying to tease you playfully but just awkward with it. Or may just be awkwardly overly honest, in that case she probably has gotten bullied too for being a...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
5 points

She’s making something that is difficult for you about herself. Plus, she needs to explain herself a lot better for this to make any sense. I hate when people laugh at my stutter casually—being alerte...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
8 points

No one I have ever dated has talked about my speech. I have been with my husband for 20 years, and he only mentioned it in passing for the first time last year......

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

I know how it looks. Don't overthink it. She's probably not used to this situation, but the fact is that she's interested to have a date with you, knowing you have a stutter. I laugh at my own stutte...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
1 points

I can relate with you , my stuttering starts when I'm 10 years old because of loneliness and lack of confidence, now I'm 19 years old . I'm in College now and stutter alot than before, can't even ask...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
1 points

No, it made me feel uncomfortable so I didn’t reply to that message. However, I should have. I don’t know if I should bring it up again...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

Totally agree. Kids ok, but not a grown woman, and definitely not one I want to get romantically involved with. But I’ll give it a chance anyhow. Thanks!...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
2 points

Don't be sensitive.  Just go out on the date and don't care if she does or not.  If she does and you don't like they then put her in the casual category and keep it moving...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
4 points

She’s probably just trying to be cute and tease you. It’s annoying but I mean up to you if you find that cute or not. My stutter decreased considerably once I learned to laugh at it...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
4 points

its like saying oh I'm apologizing in advance in case I laugh if you accidentally trip due to the fact that you MISS A LEG AND HALF AN ARM. I get that little kids find it wierd and laugh cause they'r...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
6 points

Imo she's trying to be considerate and is worried she'll make you feel bad by inadvertently smiling or laughing as you stutter. Some people do, unconsciously, laugh or smirk when I stutter, but I take...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
4 points

In my opinion, there's a 90% chance this isn't gonna work out. But that 10% chance might be that she is incredibly nervous and brought it up because she's a nervous laugher. I'd probably allow it one ...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
5 points

Did she explain why she might laugh? Is it like a nervous reaction thing? Still, I agree that's it's weird and a buzz kill. I think I'd prolly cancel the date tbh....

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
11 points

Exactly my thoughts. I work with children sometimes, I allow them a giggle or two and try to educate them politely afterwards. But giggles coming from an adult? You are not 7 years old. However, I’ll...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
1 points

She’s clearly not mature, and I wouldn’t purse it further if I were you. I don’t see how she could be a supportive partner with this immature attitude....

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
40 points

Now I doubt it's this, but some people involuntarily laugh when nervous or awkward. This MIGHT be her knowing she does this. But again I doubt it. Def weird though, I'd probably go on the date anyway...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
3 points

I very much agree… And yes, I did tell her, we’re meeting this weekend. Not only text but we’ve exchanged some voice messages as well...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
17 points

I'd feel exactly the same as you. I guess I appreciate that she thinks she's trying to be considerate by being up front, but is she an adult? Can she not control herself? My buzz would be killed but...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2025
11 points

I mean, at best it’s just a weird thing to say preemptively. I can’t imagine someone who is unable to hold their laughter at someone with a stutter would be a great partner for someone with a stutter....

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