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commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
8 points

Ordering food is hard for many of us who stutter. I've achieved fluency and ordering food still takes effort where most of my other speech is effortless. I tend to offer a few pieces of advice over a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
4 points

Not anymore. Stuttering is a part of my everyday life. One instance of stuttering feels shit now, but passes after a short while. Knowing I denied myself something just because I want to avoid the jud...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
2 points

People often come from a point of view that "dealing with it" is synonymous with "Accepting it". Many people who stutter find that their fluency sky rockets once they allow themself to stutter. I do...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
10 points

Dude I absolutely hated ordering at restaurants. Usually my dad would look at me in this judging way while I would block for 5-10 seconds. The feelings of embarrassment and shame were so palpable. Som...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
13 points

I used to go to wienerschitzel a lot. And I loved getting their Strawberry Lemonades. Only problem, I have trouble saying words that begin with S. So many many times I opted for the other options whic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
3 points

Exactly! It´s up to us to normalise it. Or at least not make it seem like its a disease or so...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
5 points

Seeing that you are very young and haven’t stuttered your whole life I can understand your frustration, I was the same way but I’ve stuttered my whole life. At 25 I’m lucky enough to have married som...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
5 points

Stutter is a complex disorder and there could be 100s of psychological, neurological, physiological reasons why people stutter. Kids sometimes develop stutter just because their vocal organs are growi...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
3 points

There is no cure at the moment and none I know of on the horizon. You don't have to "deal with it" if you don't like that phrasing, but you will eventually have to accept it and be happier when you do...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
4 points

After 32 years of trying everything under the sun, the only thing left is to “deal with it”. That doesn’t mean you gave up. That means you decided to stop spending your mental energy chasing something...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
7 points

You should know this if you went to speech therapy, but accepting one’s stutter is the number one best way to help it lessen and become more fluent ( at least that’s what my speech therapist said ). A...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2022
3 points

Agreed. Mine isn't cured but I now know how to deal with blocks and anxiety around speaking. I am about 90-95% fluent these days, after some amazing speech therapy (insurance paid back most of the cos...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Positive Therapy TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
8 points

\> But people realised their speech became a lot better when they stopped pushing pressure on themselves. 100x times this. It's not about giving up, it's about accepting it. If there's a cure o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
21 points

>We shouldn’t have to deal with something that effects our mental health tremendously and sometimes even physically hurts our jaw or muscles Just a friendly reminder that pretty much everyone has ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
12 points

I am glad that you are so resilient and that you refuse to give up. But it is absolutely okay for someone to stop seeking out treatment for their stutter. I’ve accepted my stutter and I’m much happier...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
3 points

Its not easy but it is important! The more the world is exposed to stuttering the less stigma there will be. More importantly I believe we owe it to ourselves...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMay 23, 2022
7 points

Staying real to Self vs Staying Positive

Staying real to Self vs Staying Positive I am 24m Stuttering since childhood and struggling with it everyday recently i have been through very rough time i can't get a job because i get rejected in in...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterMay 23, 2022
7 points

The Objective Truth

The Objective Truth So I wanted to talk about a specific thing that our mind (or at least mine) often says regarding stuttering. Personally when I feel courageous enough to stutter or say stuff, often...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
2 points

Hey man! Thank you so much for this I love this mindset. I am also a stutterer who tries to see stuttering as a good thing or at least not as a bad thing. It has given me confidence over the past few ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2022
2 points

I'm (27F) happily married while having a stutter. None of the people that I've dated have cared. Some thought my stutter was adorable which I strongly disliked. One of my exes was used to stuttering, ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance