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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

**Question #1** **Killing the difficult letter:** Make a phone call and exaggerate the difficult letter by hitting it three times or elongating it for 5 seconds. Once you kill the difficult letter,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
3 points

I think about that rarely but when I do I try and use it as a placebo effect to try and help me stutter less...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
8 points

In the book Life on Delay: Making Peace with a Stutter, the author John Hendrickson goes into how OCD and stutters are actually quite related in the brain, so this wouldn't actually shock me. Highly ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

It helps me to see it from the other persons perspective in situations like this. 99% of the world doesn't have any idea what stuttering entails. It sucks, but he's just doing his job with someone he ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

I agree that “we take longer and it takes more effort” but in the reality of OP and many others, there are also many circumstances where *we are not able to fully say what we want to*. Many people ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

My issue was getting people who would hang up on me. I've also had people at dr.s. offices when I'm calling to schedule an apt tell me that I need to call back when I have someone they can better und...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
2 points

Oh, you poor thing! I've read here the post of another stutterer who, when stopped for a routine traffic reason, was detained by the police officer who thought he was holding -back information or usin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
4 points

Oh nooooo, OP I’m so sorry. My husband finds this happens to him when he has to speak with law enforcement. One time they thought he was drugged/drunk....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

Thank you so much, this really helped me before my first shift. You are 100% correct, I judge myself so much more than anyone I serve. I’ll speak poorly to someone and they won’t bat an eye but in my ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
2 points

Hmm, okay. Have you seen the SBSK video 'life with a stutter and social anxiety'? Do you think that stutter is severe?...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 15, 2023
17 points

Bad experience through immigration

Bad experience through immigration Hi all, I just landed in the US and had a terrible experience when going through the US border. Any interaction I have with law enforcement or with someone who has ...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2023
2 points

It's common for stuttering to be more pronounced around other people, especially if we feel anxious or self-conscious. I think your theory is spot on – when we're alone, there's no one there to ju...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentPersonal Stories
postr/StutterMar 14, 2023
14 points

sometimes i just wanna be deaf whenever i’m talking…

sometimes i just wanna be deaf whenever i’m talking… because whenever i have my airpods on with noise cancellation, i know that i can’t hear other people or any type of noise that clearly, so i don’t ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Environmental TriggersAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2023
9 points

Mine is 100% stress, anxiety and the anticipation of stuttering. The more I work on anxiety reduction, Relaxation and acceptance the more my stutter improves...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2023
9 points

My stuttering trigger is anxiety and stress, I can be perfectly fluent if I am calm and not triggered. As I got older, I get less triggered so I stay mostly fluent. People around me today don't really...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 13, 2023
14 points

Mystery

Mystery I stutter to other people but never to myself or by myself. My theory is that I’m just too anxious around people and when I’m alone, no one is there to judge me so I don’t stutter when I’m by ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterMar 13, 2023
13 points

First College Presentation

First College Presentation Hello! I have my first college presentation coming up in 3 weeks. I have plenty of time to prepare, but I wanted to ask y'all for some tips. Presentations in high school wer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2023
1 points

1. There is such a thing as biological resiliency or simply having more biological likelihood of happiness. Two people can experience the exact same horrible event, but based in their biological re...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Energy & Biological RhythmsAcceptance & PrideMindfulness & Breathing+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
5 points

I remember feeling like this when I was first beginning to date up until I met my fiancé. I wasn't in a real relationship until college, and in that relationship, I stayed because I was afraid no one ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2023
3 points

Well, I think that my stutter is mild. In the first sessions with people, I stutter more, but as the time goes by, and I get more comfortable, stuttering is decreasing. It can be good as a therapeutic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more