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postr/StutterMar 21, 2023
24 points

I Don’t know what to do anymore

I Don’t know what to do anymore Hello I’m a 18 year old guy with a extremely severe stutter, My stutter was once ok for a short period of time but it immediately got worse and worse for some reason. A...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
2 points

I believe that mine is a confidence thing. My brother, mum, uncle, gran all have one but it’s barely noticeable. They will have a brief block every once in a while and that’s it. Mines a lot worse an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
1 points

>***Then start changing our intentions to sincere positive intentions*** The word 'positive' is out of place in my opinion. Question: Do you agree that positive intentions could lead to unhelpful ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
1 points

>As we prove the validity of these positive perceptions, they will turn into beliefs. And so, over time, we can change ourselves to become more positive. I understand. The problem with aiming for ...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
10 points

Sudden feeling when it seems like you can say anything

Sudden feeling when it seems like you can say anything Hello, I have a psychological stutter wich means anxiety plays the biggest role in it but sometimes I doubt every word and other times I feel lik...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
7 points

The goal of “completely curing your stutter” is not good as every person who talks stutters sometimes. And the pressure will make your stutter worse…...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

It wasn’t as bad as I thought in the end, at first it was really hard but once I relaxed I became a bit more fluent to the point were I was only getting stuck on a few words. Examiner was very friendl...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

I think a stutter develops because of a minority complex. The consequences of what you choose to say are very intimidating....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
2 points

I agree with you, but this fear, anticipation, and monitoring of reactions and negative preconceptions will disappear once you adhere to the correct method and mentality. And I referred to this in t...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

"*Elongation*". I agree with you that the positive effect of elongation could be: reducing fear of a feared letter. Research states that if adults who stutter 'anticipate stuttering', then they are 90...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
2 points

I feel the same! It’s probably because it’s easier for you to have a conversation with somebody when you have a lot of confidence, like it’s for everyone....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
3 points

>*When I am sometimes interrupted, I am able to speak the word fine. Does anyone experience this?* Yes I experience this as well. This [research](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/353636923...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

>What do you do to get more confident while speaking and not avoid **certain words**? **I recommend not to link self-esteem to speech performance**: "Feel the fear (of **certain words** or situati...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
5 points

I started stuttering when I was 5-6 years old. My parents tried different things but it didn’t help. Then we met a speech therapist when I was 16 and he suggested the above method to me. I was in high...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
3 points

I feel you man when it comes to working a job nobody gives a shut about stutterers sure the minority’s and lgbt communities are protected for the most part but when it comes to interviews once I start...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

I think there’s a fine line being demanding respect and calling for violence. And whether or not he had a weapon, he was an old guy so I wasn’t to concerned...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
5 points

Ooof, this has happened to me so many times, I know how much it stings and won’t go away. I know it sounds cliche and is hard to do; but try to let it go. Holding on to it is only going to hurt you an...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
2 points

On the flipside, some people aren't to aware of things that don't affect them or the people they know, did you say you had a stutter and asked them to be a patience with you while you solve their issu...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
1 points

The thing I try to do isn't "wishing I didn't have a stutter" it's saying to myself that the only thing holding me back is my mind and that I can talk fine on my own. I normally think" If i didn't sut...

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postr/StutterMar 18, 2023
15 points

Has anyone else developed a minority complex because of your stutter?

Has anyone else developed a minority complex because of your stutter? I (18M) have developed a minority complex because it's just so embarrassing that you can't talk properly. The jealousy that I'm ex...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more