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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
1 points

Same happens to me! I had a small stutter as a kid but grew out of it, and just recently about a year ago, I’ve been having trouble saying my name when I introduce myself. I’ll go through really bad p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2023
2 points

The more important the situation is the worse my stutter gets, I'm the same...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 8, 2023
15 points

Tips to improve stuttering (Exactly what fear is holding back speech to outgrow stuttering? Obviously we fear stuttering and listeners responses but what is its deeper fear? What fear is behind it all? Do we fear our own intention to say a feared word fluently? Here is homework.)

Tips to improve stuttering (Exactly what fear is holding back speech to outgrow stuttering? Obviously we fear stuttering and listeners responses but what is its deeper fear? What fear is behind it all...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
1 points

I understand how stutters can become self-denying, and thats a good thing but it also depends on the intentions that you have. Is your intention to just give up? If thats the case, you are your own en...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
1 points

Sorry shouldn't have used the word stutter. It's the same thing though you think you are going to say it wrong so you tense up and cause yourself to say it wrong. The way to beat it is to remove the f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
2 points

It's not a stutter. It's more like excessive anxiety and tension makes me pronounce my name really badly. I don't repeat any part of my name. The issue is the blockage which no one sees and once I ut...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
5 points

One of us! One of us! One of us! Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy. The only advise is to work on being OK with stuttering on your name. I know it's hard to consider it not bothering you but the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 7, 2023
8 points

I can't saying my name without lisping, stammering and mispronouncing. Help!

I can't saying my name without lisping, stammering and mispronouncing. Help! I used to be a heavy stutter as a child and had a bad lisp. My stutter faded as I got older and has been gone for years now...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
13 points

Yes, same here. When I hear someone else stutter, my chest feels tight and I feel breathless....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
1 points

I never did until one day I stuttered on the name of my town. And my brain thought, "wouldn't it be terrible if you stuttered on your own name". Ever since that day I stutter on my name....

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Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 6, 2023
97 points

hearing othere stutter

hearing othere stutter though i have a stutter, i hate hearing other people stutter. i think its because im afraid of how people see me when i stutter so seeing other people stutter makes me wanna squ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
3 points

Hey! I saw your post about how you might have the same problem as me. I still have the issue. A lot of it for me is low confidence & an anxiety that I have built in my mind with talking. It’s craz...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2023
9 points

No. Stuttering can hit people at any time. Some don't get a stutter until they are in their teens or even later. Some stutter for a few years in their childhood and then it goes away after a few years...

Parent & CaregiverCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Home SupportTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
11 points

What I learnt thus far.

What I learnt thus far. I presented yesterday at my uni (sort of) yeah I didn't get pass the first word lol but upon going up to the stage with my group I felt what I didn't feel in years. Pretty much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
6 points

You know you are capable of making those sounds fluently in the right circumstance. But you expect you're going to stutter, so you are more tense, so you are more likely to stutter. Try thinking, "I'...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
5 points

Hi!! I think we have similar patterns, times when the stutter is not bad at all and times when it’s awful. I wish I had more concrete advice, but I just think that the constant fear of stuttering is s...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
12 points

Frustrations and Worries

Frustrations and Worries (I’m sorry this is so long I just needed a place to get this all out) I’m a freshman at college right now, and I’m going through a bit of a transformative period of my life....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 5, 2023
25 points

The awkward smile

The awkward smile I'm sure we've all gotten that awkward smile from people who we were talking to and started stuttering and they just started giving you that awkward uncomfortable smile... Or the "...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2023
8 points

DAE feel frustrated when you feel you’re being ignored?

DAE feel frustrated when you feel you’re being ignored? I noticed I have this really big pet-peeve where I don’t like being ignored. When I was a kid, I used to literally break down and cry if I told ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 4, 2023
4 points

Tips to improve stuttering according to a PhD researcher (Do we stutter more because of perfectionism? Is the main problem (causing speech blocks) that we concern over mistakes and doubts about our actions? Tips to outgrow stuttering as an adult.)

Tips to improve stuttering according to a PhD researcher (Do we stutter more because of perfectionism? Is the main problem (causing speech blocks) that we concern over mistakes and doubts about our ac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more