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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

I can only speak to my experience, I would have had them blocks and my name would have been a nightmare. I would have been concealing my stuttering and not feeling fully authentic, I was able to reduc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

Thanks for your comment. I totally understand but for some their stutter can be a sense of identity and they can see the qualities that living the experience of having a stutter can bring. It also doe...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
8 points

I have huge mixed feelings about this. While it certainly isnt something that makes me feel ashamed I wouldnt consider it either a defining piece of myself. I do wanna get rid of it, but I've accepted...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

Yes, my stutter did get better. I started stuttering in 1964 due to what I’d consider, pretty horrific family dynamics and issues at the age of 12. I am 69 now and speak quite well with only occasion...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

I stutter, have a weight problem, and I'm also gay. But that is who I am! Your dad sucks, sorry, but it's not uncommon....

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

I can’t believe they wrote it like that 😭 I’m super glad that you’ve gotten better because that means there’s hope for me. Thank you so much for sharing...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

So I would really recommend the Dave McGuire course. They have an inexpensive self help book on Amazon called “Beyond Stammering: The Mcguire Program for getting good at the Sport of Speaking.” You ca...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

You’re going to get over it. My blocks with my name come and go. It sucks and it makes you feel like shit, but you’ll get over it. I’m sorry that you get to live with this too. It’s hard and it never ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
7 points

You just have to not give a fuck. By all means go ahead and do everything you can to fix your stutter and ability to speak but at the end of the day if it’s a part of you then you need to accept it. Y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
15 points

I've struggled really bad saying my name my entire life until recently. It might help if you practice saying your name to someone you're comfortable with or just saying it to yourself when you're alon...

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Feared Words & NamesAcceptance & PrideFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
4 points

I mean I'd rather have a kid that stutters then a gay kid to. But if my kid stutters I wouldn't tell him what your dad said lmao. I don't think stuttering is something to he disappointed about....

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
1 points

Yes i think everbody has the ability to be confident..... we sell ourselves too short, and believe me that was me for 35 years of my life. Here is a test you can do and im willing to bet my life on...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
4 points

I'm an RN on the cardiac floor of one of the largest hospitals in my state. It was intimidating at first but I realized (& I know it easier said than done) that I don't really care what others thi...

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postr/StutterJul 15, 2022
27 points

First job!

First job! Hi guys, I'm 18 years old and I'm a mild to severe stutterer. I'm now in my summer break and I was pretty bored. So bored that I decided to look for a summer job. I managed to find a job a...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2022
5 points

I’m 21 and I say I’ve accepted it but I’ve really not. There was a guy at my work who had one and he would talk away to everyone and I never understood how to do it. I constantly tried to chase his se...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
5 points

Exactly! Who cares what other people think, they either accept it or they don’t life goes on. You can’t change what other people think but you can change the way you think about yourself....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
6 points

It's no different from anything else really. People will only respect you as much as you respect yourself, so if you're comfortable in your own skin, believe in yourself, & project that confidence...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
3 points

No yeah same!! It’s a struggle, I try my best to avoid those situations….which is sad. I’ve been slowly trying to put myself in those situations. Like the other day I went to Starbucks and went to the...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2022
1 points

It sounds like things are looking up for you. I'm glad to hear that. I to recently came to terms with the fact that having a stutter is ok. I was obsessed with getting rid of my stutter for a long tim...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 14, 2022
9 points

Currently a speech therapy grad student

Currently a speech therapy grad student Hey everyone! I have a stutter, and have stuttered since I was 2-3. I’ve had really bad experiences with it pretty much my whole life. I got my undergraduate de...

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