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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
3 points

>On the other hand i read and write much more because of it and I’ve never been afraid to speak my mind. So many others talk completely fine but never dare speak what they really feel or think. I ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
2 points

Very interesting response! I like it. Are you saying changing your point of view on your stutter helped you speak fluently ? Like coming to these realizations helped you stop stuttering ?...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
0 points

Biden does not get ridiculed for his stutter, he gets ridiculed for making incoherent sentences....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
4 points

I truly believe that YOU yourself, and how you view your stutter/ your relationship with it, limits and sets boundaries on what you think you can do in life or specifically in a career. Many people ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
6 points

Yeah I’ve stuttered nearly my entire life but right now I’ve managed to get it to a point where I’m fluent around the people I’m most comfortable around. Around people who i don’t know very well i str...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
3 points

You speak because you know you have something valuable to say. you know, even behind what you tell yourself and what others say that you DO provide value to conversations, speeches, or really anything...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
5 points

No you should not. I am the same way man, and I’ve considered it, but I would never surrender my name to my stutter, I think that is accepting defeat. Say you do change your name. What comes next? Y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 8, 2021
2 points

Should I just go by a nick name?

Should I just go by a nick name? So really the only word I have I had hard time with anymore is my name so should I just change it??...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
4 points

Same here. Except I was abused for 19 years of my life, add the stuttering into the mix and you get severely low confidence. As in my case. I suppose it could of been worse....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
4 points

I think to some extent it has for me. But in sort of an unexpected way. I’ve always loved the idea of going into politics but after seeing the reaction from people over Biden’s speech issues. It disap...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
15 points

It isn’t about the steps I believe. But about the physical activity. Exercising does help one’s self confidence and esteem so maybe that has an effect on speech fluency....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
2 points

I think it has to do with self-confidence. The less you stutter when reading and speaking the more boost for your confidence....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2021
2 points

I'll do it, thanks, what Im mainly doing right now is speaking as much as I can with my family about any topic and notice my stutter has gotten stronger when I stress about it, with my family Im still...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2021
2 points

Heh, alcohol helps ease everything😄 But don't use it often, okay? It's not worth it, and it won't help in long term. And hey, it's not necessary to have a perfect speech to make anyone be proud of ...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2021
1 points

I work in administration/communication/planning/support - so yeah, I basically talk to a lot of people about a lot of things. I don't think stuttering affects my career, since I'm where I want to be,...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2021
1 points

A great Dr suess quote springs to mind. “Those who mind don’t matter and those that matter don’t mind”. Great quote but sometimes hard to live to....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
11 points

Very well said! It's one thing to hide it and pretend like it doesn't bother you, but you're as much as a human being as they are and deserve to be treated as such. Thank you for bring brave and posti...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
6 points

I remember back in primary school the teacher was reading out the register and then he finally got to me I couldn't get my words what so ever. Half the class laughed at me and the teacher (fucking cun...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

I have a very similar issue. I stutter the most around my sister and mother, and around strangers or acquaintances I can speak much more fluently. I've heard some people say they dont stutter when the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionRoles & PerformanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2021
1 points

Lol, you're explaining it to me? But maybe yes, some people just need to grow up and realize that they should mind their interests no matter what others think....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception