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postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
18 points

It's not my fault, I have a disability, and Im done blaming myself full stop.

It's not my fault, I have a disability, and Im done blaming myself full stop. I realized today that stuttering isn't my fault, i never chose to have a stutter, and It's not my duty to cure it. no amou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
3 points

I disagree with this to an extent like yes I do substitute words that don't fit grammatically however I don't think that effects your intelligence at all. You may sound less intelligent but simply say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Nope. Fuck that.  Every single person has their own struggle, putting other people on some pedestal only serves to send you down this spiral of self pity.  Life is what you make of it.  It sure can be...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 13, 2025
5 points

I feel dumber than before

I feel dumber than before It is often said that if you are intelligent or cultured, it shows in your language, but... what if the other way around also works? I'm not saying that if you're stupid yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

I don't know, it sounds like he had a mild stutter to begin with and with proper editing it can almost completely be hidden. I think its possible for people with mild stutters to 'overcome' stuttering...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Yes bro, exactly. Only we know what we truly want to say and what we feel or go through. Normies never understand these things......

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
1 points

Stuttering didn’t do that. It’s you. YOU’RE counting yourself out. I’m a female paramedic firefighter that can’t even say my name sometimes. But I go out in the world socialize, get money, travel & go...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
2 points

🙄 another “Woe is me. No girl will like me because of my stutter”. No she does like you cuz you’re throwing a pity party & not exuding confidence. Since you already counted yourself out, stick to you...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2025
0 points

I think you need to reword this. It's coming off not the way you think. Anyway, just be a nice person out there in the world. You have no idea why someone is attracted or not attracted to you, just l...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/Stutter_remissionNov 13, 2025
1 points

Stutter theory from Sanjeeva’s (PhD) - Discussions and reflections

Stutter theory from Sanjeeva’s (PhD) - Discussions and reflections Many SLPs and researchers base their work on Charles Van Riper’s theory. Stuttering has clear genetic and neurological roots, and its...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringGenetic & Family FactorsNeurological & Brain+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
3 points

Yes, but because I idealise romantic tragedies, and have had a string of passionate relationships that ended in heartbreak. But not because of my stutter. Life can suck because of many reasons, but ve...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
6 points

Man I'm two years older than you and I feel everything you just said. My stutter is very severe, and I have mild autism, so I struggle with a lot of things in life. I spent all of middle and high scho...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
7 points

Yeah but how do you do that when every conversation you have, never turns out how you want it to. Every joke you tried to make is a 50/50 dice roll of it falling flat. How can I be able to hear myself...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
8 points

My son is a stutterer and in high school. He doesn’t talk like others and he is well aware of that. He also doesn’t truly care what others think. He found a small group of friends who he is very close...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

Yes, absolutely! My vocabulary is extensive because of my stutter. I know words to pivot to if it becomes too difficult to say a word I typically stutter on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
1 points

I have found that if you relapse it means you have a stuttering brain. The brain will automatically goes back to its comfort level. It is both frustrating and annoying. I am a speech pathologist and I...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterNov 12, 2025
6 points

The small kid inside

The small kid inside (22M) I'm currently in a transitional phase of my life, trying my best to accept things as they are, get to know myself better, and develop the version of me that I want to become...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2025
2 points

dude same my first name starts with an R so i can roll it but my last name is with a C so everytime i have to show up for class i have to start with an A sound.. but honestly if you're going to univer...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2025
1 points

i just know your future is bright bro. never let this stutter define you. Your bigger than that!!! wish you the best <3...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 9, 2025
38 points

Just venting

Just venting It hurts to be seen as a decent, intelligent person who can talk about almost any subject—but only through text. In person, you don't recognize yourself; it's as if you have a mental fog...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception