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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
5 points

Ok, never mind, you are not a good person after all. You can not keep up with an argument without keeping insulting other person, you do not even know. I personally would be ashamed. Did not want it t...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

That is completely wrong. I know women who are attracted to men horribly scarred by fire, as well as men who are unkempt or in trouble with the law or are massive nerds. The delusion is thinking wome...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
2 points

Not sure why you should proceed to insults straight away, considering the fact that you do not know my relationship status or who I am in general. It is obvious that people do not just fall in love wi...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
3 points

I'm 27 and I've always been single. Not because I'm ugly but because simply I don't even try to approach a girl. I've choose to think about other things than girls....

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
17 points

the cops once laughed with my stutter. When asked how old I am, I answered "se-se-sevent-t-t-teen". they began to mimic me and ask: why? Are you scared of us?" they were very young policemen. their la...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2023
4 points

Ngl there was a girl in school who totally was into me but I ignored her because I was too shy and awkward to talk to her...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
5 points

It’s always been a major fear of mine. Not only for the stutter, but I’m a black woman with adhd, so my meds show up on a drug test. I have gotten pulled over once, but the cops were surprisingly supe...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

I totally get that. There's many times where I'm either talking way too loud, or I'm just not talking enough/loud enough. It's like there's no healthy middle. People always ask if my hearing's okay. I...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

If you have a severe stutter and you see a girl you wanna approach ask yourself would she wanna be seen with you and be heard with you. Imagine going to a a store or restaurant having too talk. Try to...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

This answer is easy for me and someone already said it too and it’s that I don’t approach girls. You can search up what girls don’t like when you approach them on and some of the answers would be when...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
1 points

You may want to give voluntary stuttering a try. From personal experience, it was extremely difficult to get myself to do it( 2 years!), but its a very empowering experience. You are stuttering on p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
6 points

Act like yourself, and remember that most people in adult life DGAF. Maybe even make fun of yourself a bit. Emphasize your good qualities, and understand that women can be just as shy as you. Ask a...

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Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
2 points

sink or swim mindset. The worst part is getting past saying your name lmao I can take rejection way easier...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 24, 2023
14 points

Met someone with a stutter in college (blocks)

Met someone with a stutter in college (blocks) P.S. I am not fluent in English, but I tried my best to explain this in English. Sorry for my grammar but I hope you understand what I wrote. So I never...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential AssociationFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
3 points

As bad as this sounds, I feel like the better you are in some areas, the easier it is to counteract. The problem I find with stuttering is not the dating phase, but women typically want you to get rid...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
18 points

How you do it matters, but what's so much more important is that you simply *do it*, again and again and again. You'll get rejected, of course, but you will also get better at it and more confident. ...

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Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2023
21 points

That's the fun part! You don't! But honestly, you just do it and deal with the laughter and mockery. 1 out of 10 won't blow you off and you might even get a friend out of it....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
postr/StutterApr 24, 2023
84 points

Male stutterers: how the hell do you approach and talk to girls?

Male stutterers: how the hell do you approach and talk to girls? introducing yourself and talking with a stutter is such a huge challenge on top of the already gigantic challenge of going up to a girl...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
3 points

100% this. I do this all the time. I don't disclose when applying, but i say something similar at the start of the interview....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2023
1 points

Stuttering and bad blocks makes me frustrated and angry because It makes me feel like I’m stupid and it makes me think others think I’m stupid and incompetent. All the time I see people talk with no p...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance