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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

You can and will do better. Keep trying. Don’t give up. Keep speaking _because_ it’s hard. Embrace the discomfort, subdue it and become its master. And remember, nobody loves you any less because of y...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

The issue that many seem to forget is that their stuttering and self esteem was at their worst when people were mocking them. I am not becoming that mess again, no way. I got lucky, something broke in...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

Ignorance is the biggest form of stupidity. It is only ok if you let it. What they think of you will eventually become reality. If I don't stand up for myself now, when? Until my self esteem drops to...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

Thx for the good wishes. Few people know I stutter because I cover it very well. I choose my words very carefully, avoid social situations I know will be unpleasant for me and have developed a whole...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

I’m sorry that your dad treats you that way. I find that my stutter is worse around my dad and I’m happy that he’s patient with me and allows me to text him instead of calling him if we have to have i...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
5 points

Amazing story man! Hope you continue to go out your comfort zone remember you speech dosent define who you are! If u ever wanna talk message me on reddit, Have a good weekend....

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

So I'm, Sometimes I have to choose a revelant opinion to mine or just change the subject to keep the conversation forward. Tbh, Sometimes l liked stutter in somehow and feels like it's a blessing, Whe...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

My dad also treated me this way. Try talking to him and getting through how you feel. Wish you the best mate....

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
3 points

You father seems like a problem. Even if you didn't have a stutter, he'd mostly likely find something else about you to pick on. People like that are impossible to please. I'm sorry you've to deal w...

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Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
3 points

your dad has problems. You are not wrong for having a stutter, he's wrong for saying inappropriate and hurtful stuff like that and doing what he does. Remember that...

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Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
5 points

My father and I grew very distant over the course of several years (teens to 20's.) Not related to my stutter, but there was a widening chasm. It came to a head one day. I exploded. I let it all out. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
7 points

That’s tough man. My father although not so direct clearly is not supportive. It’s evident that he would rather have me not embarrass him in front of the world. I don’t live with him anymore, that’s...

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commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
16 points

I'm so sorry your father treats you like that! Your stutter does not make you any less worthwhile and purposeful than any other person on this planet. It's not your fault you have a stutter, and while...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
2 points

Ah yes, there it is— I’d entertain your opinion if Lovett didn’t have a stutter and just a guy exploiting those who stutter but he does have a stutter and has experience in practicing/overcoming it. W...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
6 points

Assure him that you love him unconditionally, stutter or not, that he is way more important than the fact that he stutters. Remind him that there's famous people who stutter but they didn't let that s...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
2 points

John Hendrickson is the best, I find a true inspiration from people that has severe stutter and despite it can be succesfull in life !...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
8 points

Yea I always knew stuttering was a big deal to the individual that stuttered but never knew how much it really affected them/that’s what they just think about all day. Thank you for your advice ~...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
5 points

You may want to look at some of the David Goggins videos on Youtube. A side from being a stutterer, he was also obese and came from a disadvantage home life. He refused to let any of that impede him...

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Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
11 points

It won't. I did 6 years in the Navy as an enlisted nuclear mechanic. I was disqualified at MEPS for my stutter but had it appealed and all I had to do was provide a recording of me saying the sailor...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
6 points

There’s nothing you can do to avoid it, if it’s something you want you’re just going to have to live with the hurdles you’ll face as a stutterer. Don’t let it stop you, you may have a harder time than...

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