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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
1 points

The best way to accept your stutter is to laugh about it and embrace it. I know it's much easier said than done but we all have boundaries regarding humour and you'll end up happier by just loosen up....

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
4 points

I don’t get easily offended when it comes to my stutter, as I said in my post I usually don’t mind the jokes but it caught me at a sensitive moment. It’s not like I was actively looking for something ...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
9 points

I can only speak for myself of course but I don't mind jokes. To me, they are a sort of coping mechanism. If I am not bothered by jokes, it's harder to make fun of me, which again leads to me having a...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2022
2 points

I know I shouldn’t care but I do🥺 I’ll slowly begin to do so though. Thank you for your comment...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
3 points

Don't worry everything will go well just be confident, dont care tooooo much about stuttering and just have fun yk?...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2022
4 points

To add to this, I think once one just accepts that it's not going to go away, it becomes easier. You know you're going to stutter so you just speak anyway. That being said, the second there's a drug...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2022
3 points

Sorry mate this is part of it. We do life on hard mode. It helps when you learn to accept you stutter and will stutter. Makes the dread and anxiety go away....

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commentr/StutterAug 23, 2022
2 points

I also started stuttering more after the pandemic. Before the pandemic I had a really mild stutterer but now I stutter almost every sentence. I have tried to figure out why I stutter more now than bef...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

A cognitive behavioral therapist that works on your mindset is probably the best fit for you. Lots of people have differences that they have to live with and compensate for, but it doesn't make them l...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

There are two schools of thought on stuttering and what will work for you depends on how you think about fluency. The first type is accepting that stuttering will happen and just relaxing and letting ...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

Great advice brother. Weird thing to apologize about. I don’t say this to be arrogant but I find it so strange when people act awkward around your stutter (if you don’t). Like It’s just a stutter bro ...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
4 points

Try to meet personally some other stutterers who have been able to overcome their fears, it worked so much for me. I was in a situation like you are in right now and meeting a fellow stutter changed m...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

My uncle stutters. Although he has alot of confidence and he can easily say words now. It got alot better. I look up to him...

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postr/StutterAug 22, 2022
5 points

Does this happen to anyone else ?

Does this happen to anyone else ? I stutter, not very severely but yes I do and it's been like this since I can remember. But i don't stutter when I talk to myself or talk to someone close with whom I...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

This is going to be unpopular, but if I got offended every time a girl smiled at my stutter I would have no girls like me. You stutter. People (girls, namely) are going to smile, they might even cra...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
6 points

I think most people would tell you to accept the promotion and not to let your stutter hold you back, which I agree with. However, if you don’t feel comfortable stuttering around these clients then I’...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I can definitely empathize and relate to your frustration 100%. I’m not gonna give u the same old script about how to supposedly fix your situation because sometimes I feel like I’ve tried everything ...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

I haven't quite accepted my stutter yet but I've gotten a long way on the journey. One thing that has helped me is trying to focus on other things besides my fluency when speaking. In my case that is ...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
1 points

That's great, but then if i'm not bothered because of my stutter I'll never change it. It's like, one person needs to quit his desire of being fluent to achieve this mindset, but, at least for me, tha...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2022
2 points

How does one achieve this mindset? Like not being hard on yourself when you do stutter? I've been trying meditation and to allow myself to accept whatever happens but I still find myself beating mysel...

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