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commentr/StutterJul 2, 2021
2 points

Just a thought. Try giving a different name when they ask? Do it with total strangers so is doesn't matter. I have this theory about part of my stutter being about how I view myself....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
1 points

I think a lot of us grow up feeling that way. Stuttering can be such a destructive force against our self esteem....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
1 points

Thanks for the kind words. I will admit it's very hard. My self worth is closely tied to my stutter and its a battle to separate the two....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
2 points

1. There’s several reasons for this. Not only is singing a different part of the brain (more right-hemisphere), it takes some load off of the speech processing centers by providing pre-built intonatio...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAccess & RightsIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 1, 2021
11 points

i have some questions

i have some questions 1.Why do people do not have stutter when they are singing? 2.Does stutter count as a disability?I was confused when I need to fill out a form. 3.Have you ever watch someone tal...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
2 points

Yeah, I honestly know exactly what you’re saying. I really do. I struggle still but I’m just at the point where I absolutely refuse to let it handicap my whole existence. I wish I could word it better...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2021
4 points

I’m a product owner with a covert stutter. So whilst I can mask it most times, it’s extremely exhausting and a double bad because I then think I’m being fake. I built up my identity a certain way but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

If you're going to flame out, might as well be on a practice interview. Don't beat yourself up if you weren't seriously going for this job. Seriously... DO NOT BEAT YOURSELF UP! What happened when ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
10 points

Never heard of disability accomdations, but I feel for you and know your frustration, I'm 58 and had a lifetime of this, my stutter had ruled, or should I say ruined my life, I'd be a completel...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

I definitely agree. I'm only 21 and majority of my life I wanted to fully get rid of stuttering at all costs. Now that I actually work on my speech I'm more of aware of where I'm at and realize the wo...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

Eh, I have heard it from both my parents and therapists too, Wish someone experienced could guide me but hey, at least I found correct name for this hell made disorder...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2021
1 points

I read the first as... Myth: People who stutter are smart Reality: LOL....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
3 points

I am a fighter pilot and I stutter... So yea, your wrong dog. Right about everything else though....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

Totally understand where you're coming from. I'm about to make e5 and starting to get into more leadership roles and I always shied away from them. But for the past two years I've kind of been tacklin...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
3 points

Thank you both, be confident and OWN my stutter and others will follow. Great words of advice guys I do appreciate it....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
3 points

/u/crudestsoup This person is on the money. Listen to what he has to say too. Specifically the this part- " If you see it as a weakness, so will they. If you see it as something that makes you tough b...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

I'm in the Army. At a time it was rough, but it was mainly myself that was "making it rough". When I quit giving a shit about about and developed a " yeah, I stutter... so what?" attitude, my fluency ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
1 points

Thank you for the wise words! Not to boast but I do see myself as a confident and empathic person. I don’t feel judge by my stutter at all. Honestly I don’t care if the fellas crack jokes about the st...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
2 points

I'm an E4 with a stutter rn, that really makes my day knowing there's officers out there with a stutter. Because being in the military with a stutter is rough. What branch are you....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
3 points

Just got out after 4 years as an infantryman in the Marine Corps. Had a stutter the whole time. Doesn’t hold you back and no one really cared. Had a SNCO who had a stutter and hated public speaking bu...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception