I'm in the Army. At a time it was rough, but it was mainly myself that was "making it rough". When I quit giving a shit about about and developed a " yeah, I stutter... so what?" attitude, my fluency and confidence got so much better as I said in the first post. Easier said than done- but don't let it define you. It's just something you have to deal with. If you think it's a problem and treat it like it's a problem, it'll manifest as a problem.