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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2015
1 points

I avoided airsoft after the first time I did it. It involved so many call outs and communicating, that it was impossible for me to be worthwhile to a team. Alternatively, when i talk over online gamin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2015
3 points

I really know how that feels. I think I tend to do the same thing but usually don't realize it. Typically with a lot of "uh"s. What really sucks is when people don't know that I have a stutter and th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2015
1 points

I hide it all the time. I'm very sensitive to embarrassment. When I'm not at home I often have earbuds in my ears to avoid people from talking to me. My neutral face expression looks angry according ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2015
3 points

I hide it. Now, it's become part of my speech pattern. I don't use "uhhhm" but I will elongate my syllables. I developed this because, when i used to use the uhhh-way, people assumed I had forgotten w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterMay 27, 2015
1 points

I would rather seem like someone very stupid than someone with a stutter

I would rather seem like someone very stupid than someone with a stutter All my life I have been treated as my stutter is something bad. No one wants to listen to it. It's stupid. So I have this tact...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2015
1 points

Nice work man. I have always been very up front about my stuttering during job interviews so they don't think I am nervous or falsely believe that I won't be doing this during the actual job. It h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 20, 2015
2 points

It's the opposite for me. I talk horribly over the phone. When I was younger I used to answer with "Yes?" because I couldn't say "Hello." I've had people hang up on me because I couldn't get out a wor...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2015
1 points

I agree with you, talking over phone eliminates in-person stress and I use some cues written on paper or on screen to facilitate when Im struck...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2015
2 points

I'm 32 and have had a mild stutter my whole life. It seems like it has worsened in the last few years, or maybe just started bothering me more, so I sought out something to help. I read about Xanax ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2015
1 points

Chose not to socialize all week because my speech has been shitty. My friends know that I stutter but sometimes I don't want to struggle through every sentence. So yeah..stayed home all week....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2015
1 points

Obligatory background: I always had a very covert stutter. Nobody knew about my stutter but it fairly well crippled my social life and my willingness to speak up in any situation. Regarding your pos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2015
5 points

I don't think there's really anything that helps. Stuttering has neither a known cure nor a known cause. If you find something that helps, by all means go for it, but it may just be a placebo effect. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 17, 2015
17 points

Something that really helps my stutter and speech anxiety!

Something that really helps my stutter and speech anxiety! I'm 19 years old and have had my fair share of blocks, prolonged sounds, and many other speech problems. I found a YouTube channel called "Vo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2015
7 points

Pretty much the main few things, most of them you have already. - Finishing off a sentence is a sin. The feeling is indescribable. It's probably the worst feeling I've experienced. It just makes you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2015
2 points

23 year old male here, been with my girlfriend for nearly a year. I've always been very resentful about the fact that I have a stutter. Background: I didn't so much get bullied, but picked on becaus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2015
8 points

I'm a life long stutterer in my 40s. It took me far too long to realize that trying to hide it is more than useless, it's counterproductive. She'll find out eventually and be stunned, confused and get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterMay 11, 2015
5 points

Help getting a girlfriend

Help getting a girlfriend I'm 17 and i've missed like 3-4 opportunities of getting a gf. My stutter, insecurity, low self steem and 0 commitment have been my biggest obstacles for the last 2 years. M...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2015
1 points

You get used to it, but it's definitely something I've had to work up to. Has taken years of gradual improvements to get to this point. And I still have a really long way to go! ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2015
1 points

I dont know if its a copout or not but I do the same. I always use James, its an inside joke (between me and no-one else) because my name starts with a "J" but I dont stutter on "James"...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 8, 2015
1 points

I always give a fake name at Starbucks. My go to is Mike since it's easy for me to say and easy to spell...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment