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commentr/StutterAug 15, 2023
3 points

I didn’t go to the meet because of fear , I realised whatever it is I’ll go from tomorrow cuz honestly who cares if I stutter, the sport is not about talking , so yeah idc if ppl judge me over this....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2023
2 points

When I first started stuttering, I eventually went to 3 different schools. It's not gonna be as bad as you think. I made friends who were cool about my stuttering. The most important thing is to just ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
5 points

Thanks for sharing I have the same exact thing with me. I'm an artist so when I rap the words come out perfect but if I was to read the lyrics without the rhythm I will stutter. Also when facing an au...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
3 points

You speak great. Being nervous and trauma like the above comments are totally correct. Learning to undo that takes time...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
3 points

Damn that’s interesting! You’re probably just less self-conscious and willing to speak freely. I feel like it’s better when drinking too but could totally be in my head....

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
1 points

Me too! Ive noticed this a lot more lately. I have a best friend and when I talk to him he instantly he yawns then laughs about it. Yet Ive just spent the last year helping him with his life situati...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
2 points

Thank you. I really appreciate this. The funny thing is that I've never even been on a date at all! So I'll definitely do use these tips. Also, I've heard about how you shouldn't turn it into an inter...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
3 points

23M here. First, I’d say always disclose your stutter before meeting up or at least early on in the date to clear the air. If they’re weirded out by your stutter (which most people aren’t) then you p...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & RomanceAdvice Requests+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
6 points

My advice is to stop stressing about it. Chances are, you will stutter but why spend days and days stressing about a situation that will last 10 seconds? Try to forget about it and stress about it whe...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
1 points

It increases levels of anxiety and paranoia and that can affect your stuttering mentality more....

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterAug 14, 2023
13 points

I have to attend this sports team tomorrow and I can’t even say my name

I have to attend this sports team tomorrow and I can’t even say my name So I’m a 19 F second year college student, I had mild stutter first year ( had severe stutter through my life since childhood) ,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
10 points

Don't fret. I've been there many times. I once landed a job where I stuttered so bad that I almost just walked out of the interview. They hired me, to my surprise and I think they were shocked out how...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
6 points

I’ve been there, both with jobs and girls. All I can say is hang in there and, when you can afford the time and money, start looking for a speech therapy program that works for you. That is a personal...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencySeeking TherapyTherapy Experiences+1 more
postr/StutterAug 14, 2023
4 points

How do you open up to friends?

How do you open up to friends? I've recently opened up to family about my speech but for some reason opening up to my friends seems so much more daunting. Anyone have any experiences or similar feelin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 14, 2023
47 points

Yet another job interview down the toilet.

Yet another job interview down the toilet. Had an interview today for a great position at a bank. It was the second interview, so I already knew they were going to ask more in-depth questions. I stutt...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2023
1 points

There's no point stressing about it, try to be yourself and don't get too caught up in your own thoughts. I know it's easier said than done...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 13, 2023
7 points

starting at a new school

starting at a new school Hello, I'm a 16-year-old boy about to start high school on Tuesday, and I don't know anyone there. I'm currently overthinking and feeling a bit scared to start because I know...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 13, 2023
3 points

Stutting and working as a remote customer advisor

Stutting and working as a remote customer advisor Hi everyone one question I got a stutting problem and I want to get a work from home job but most of them required talking on phone and Sometime when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2023
2 points

The only way to get better is to try and fail first. It’s just part of the process. Just go for it! People are so concerned about what’s going on in their lives that you stuttering will probably leave...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2023
4 points

There's someone for everyone trust me. Yes, some girls will probably give you a weird look but some girls will also keep a conversation going with you. It really depends on the girls you encounter. I'...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment