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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2025
3 points

Nobody knows what your chances are. It depends on many factors. It depends on her character and capacity for empathy. IMO you should try to explore but be ready for rejection. Eventually you will find...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

because as a man i feel like we have to become the best version of ourselves and earn a relationship, do you feel like you have to upgrade your life to pull someone or do men approach you anyway?...

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

oh sorry lol didnt know, how have relationships been for you as a woman who stutters?...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterMar 2, 2025
47 points

I can’t do that because of my stutter…

I can’t do that because of my stutter… Well what can I do?… survive. I can’t work because of my stutter. I can’t make money because of my stutter I can’t trust people because I trusted the wrong pe...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

yes we still talking and i don't really know what to say to her like mmm maybe that if i do not make eye contact it's just cause im nervous and that's she's not making me? or idk...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2025
1 points

Sorry for late reply. i replied in my head but never sent it loll. but yeah might as well do it at the start, a relationship friend or more beginning with open communication and understanding is solid...

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
1 points

It was terrifying but not as bad as I thought it was going to be. She was very kind and patient and after the initial uncomfortableness of it I didn't stutter again with her. Long story short we dated...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

Yeah. I don't know how it works anymore but back then all the communication up to the final stage of the matching process was fixed by eHarmony. It wasn't until we both agreed to talk freely to each o...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
2 points

I met her on eHarmony in 2009. At the time it was the only online dating site that was running commercials on TV. Before then I was single for my entire life because I was too scared to talk to anyone...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
7 points

As long as you get frustrated, his speech will just get worse. We can pick up on such cues easy, and the added pressure of not upsetting your spouse or the People you love adds much stress. What he ne...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
1 points

I'm more worried about even having children at all lmaooooo. My sttuter really prevents me from having the courage to just go and speak to people 🤣...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
1 points

Bro I know EXACTLY how you feel. 30 male and I've had a stutter ever since I could remember. I've been battling depression and suicidal thoughts since I was 19. It all started after I dropped out of c...

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Sadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High DistressDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

And how they can’t get a girlfriend lol. Like no, you’re just not that interesting of a person if all your time goes to hating how you speak and not picking up a hobby and maybe then you’d have someth...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
6 points

Facts! The real one will love you for who you are, stutter or not. If she dips because of this, she was never yours to begin with, but where do you reside...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
4 points

My partner also knows about my stuttering but he doesn’t really care about it and thats the reason why I know he wouldn’t leave me for this silly thing. If she leaves you because of this, she isn’t th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

For months, I've been keeping my stuttering a secret from my partner, but now that it's becoming worse, I can't keep it a secret any longer. She is everything to me, and I can't afford to lose her; I ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

I met my partner in my dream. Every time I try to find in real life, my stuttering be like "are you forgetting about me" with a tight slap on my confidence....

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Glad it works for you in a way, but I don't drink - never have, never will - and refuse to randomly self-medicate. Even though I'm 52, I still hope to one day find a way to get at the root cause of th...

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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
1 points

Met and became friends in 3rd grade and became lovers in the 8th. And she thinks my stutter is cute :D...

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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

I met my boyfriend in High School. I was 17, now 21. I was masking at this point. I can no longer mask anymore, I completely exhausted myself over the years. Eventually, I told him about my stutter an...

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