Sorry for late reply. i replied in my head but never sent it loll. but yeah might as well do it at the start, a relationship friend or more beginning with open communication and understanding is solid. Eye contact is iffy. The eye contact thing isnt really a big issue cause everyone has their own hurdles to get over. ofc overtime youll become more comfortable but for now its nothing to big. Most of the problems ur bringing up would literally not be a problem if you just said them to her. Assuming yall are still talking loll