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postr/StutterMay 15, 2025
17 points

New job tomorrow, how can I introduce myself if I struggle to say my own name?

New job tomorrow, how can I introduce myself if I struggle to say my own name? I have a new job and my first day is tomorrow, there's a lot of things worrying me about this job but one of the aspects ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterMay 15, 2025
9 points

I am having difficulties talking over the phone

I am having difficulties talking over the phone Hi everyone, I hope you all are doing well. So I developed a stutter as a kid, I think it started when I was 12. It was quite bad, on one occasion a tea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterMay 14, 2025
8 points

Upcoming oral exam - how to manage extreme stress and anxiety?

Upcoming oral exam - how to manage extreme stress and anxiety? I'm a university student who struggles with both stuttering and generalized anxiety disorder. I have my first ever oral exam coming up so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
postr/StutterMay 14, 2025
9 points

The stutterer podcast + I summarized 4+ hours of videos

The stutterer podcast + I summarized 4+ hours of videos I came across a random stutter Podcast. And I decided to summarize these videos: [1](https://youtu.be/dMs-fQqX98Q?t=22), [2](https://www.youtube...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 13, 2025
11 points

What do you do on your bad days?

What do you do on your bad days? Pretty sure we all have this. it’s a like a spidey sense telling us this is a bad moment. Do you push through or sit it out? Like if you’ve been meaning to get a hai...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2025
1 points

you are not the only one, same with me as well, when people ask me my name i get stuck, and they say have you forgotten ur name itself. it hurts but we cant even complain on them...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
6 points

Thank you for the detailed post. This is my attempt to extract tips from the link (that you shared). **Tips**: *(from the first post)* * Address the mental habits like trying to control speech or pl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringMindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2025
1 points

>*"Self-protection mechanism: fear stored in peripheral vision or eyes > brain receives conflicting signals (like trying to speak confidently while the eyes catch a subtle threat or discomfort in the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
1 points

This is literally me in every situation i am in where i am asked my name, you are not alone in this. I feel like absolute death after i finally say my name...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2025
2 points

Yes totally. I would say metaphorically, the speed our thought is much greater than the speed of light. The moment I think I’m gonna stutter, it’s just there already. It’s just consuming me totally....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 10, 2025
5 points

Joining a Toastmasters Club

Joining a Toastmasters Club I (24f) have had a stutter my whole life. If I just have a conversation with someone, my stutter is pretty mild. However, when it comes to doing a presentation or reading i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterMay 9, 2025
10 points

Help

Help Why am I stuttering in my early 20s?? It affects my life, it’s embarrassing. I feel as if I’m literally not able to say what I want to say. Sometimes I have to say the words extremely slowly alon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2025
3 points

One of my favorite stories, I was talking to my cousin before a class presentation one time and I was like but what if I stutter. She goes “*my name* they KNOW, they’ve heard you speak, they know you ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating Stuttering
postr/StutterMay 9, 2025
0 points

Developed a stutter

Developed a stutter I developed a slight stutter from having to repeat myself in discord calls so often because of people being too loud Just realized when I was talking to someone in minecraft with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

Started stuttering out of nowhere

Started stuttering out of nowhere Hello everyone! I've graduated from high school two years ago and started going to university February of last year. I was never a public speaker during my past lif...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringSeverity & FluctuationBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
1 points

Will do! I hope it doesn't happen but now that I know that the dream could be a trigger then maybe I'm better prepared? I just have to avoid being pulled over by cops now haha....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2025
2 points

I don't know whether i should say this or not but That exact thing happened to me few years back when i stuttered so badly in my dream like what u described ( i never stuttered that hard in my life ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAnticipating StutteringExperiential Association
postr/StutterMay 7, 2025
3 points

Stuttering in my nightmare

Stuttering in my nightmare This is going to be a random rant. I had a dream last night that I was on a road trip (I live in the US) and suddenly ended up in India. The cops caught me for driving on th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
7 points

Need urgent advice for an interview

Need urgent advice for an interview I want to do a PhD and have been applying to different programs and positions since a while now. I got accepted into a reputed graduate school with 3-4 projects of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMay 6, 2025
71 points

Can't able to say my name

Can't able to say my name I recently got a job. Today 2 preety female colleagues came to me and just simply asked my name. I was like Aaaaaaanubhav. For that moment I was like I just want to kill my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment+2 more