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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
3 points

i can relate to this. all i can say is fake it till you make it. my stutter used to make me way more timid, shy, and anxious. i am still anxious but am able to speak way more confidentially despite my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
25 points

Tips to improve stuttering from a PhD researcher

Tips to improve stuttering from a PhD researcher **Tips:** 1. there is no easy answer to improve speech. Easy answers are seldom correct for complicated events. Speaking (and stuttering) involves an ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
1 points

I 100% agree with you. I'm confident because I accept my stutter. But, there is a lot of negativity around stuttering on here. PWS can feel how they want to. But sometimes, it sets others back and mak...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
2 points

Honestly, I am weary of those self-help books. The same hammering breathe this way, do this, do that, don't do this, etc. ~ it all feels rather restrictive for me. I am a student of literature and whi...

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commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
5 points

Yeah in college I’ve found that almost nobody cares that I stutter, and if it’s an issue for them then I just move on. A lot of people just genuinely enjoy talking and listening to other people. The o...

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postr/StutterFeb 7, 2023
13 points

Hello, fellow PWS! Just dropping a positive message for everyone!

Hello, fellow PWS! Just dropping a positive message for everyone! From a fellow person with a stutter, I want each and every one of you in this subreddit to know that you are doing great. Everyday is ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
1 points

I personally do not “try to have mindsets” for the sole reason that it’s never worked for me. Except for one time, Actions are the only thing that works for me. After having a bad day/bad block, I t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
5 points

Lol, no. If anything I steer towards a normal life. Because, as a stutterer, that’s not easily achievable....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
1 points

Let them find their own confidence, An understanding of your stuttering and accepting it will last longer than short term assurance. The reason why a good amount of stutterers feel isolated and alon...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
1 points

Do you really want to be a science teacher? Then you could find ways to do it. But it sounds like you don’t, and of course there’s no reason to push through what would be a lot of genuine difficulties...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
3 points

You can’t live like that anymore, beating yourself up for stuttering and deciding your life is over before its really begun. Why do you need to live a quiet and isolated life? I stutter and I sure don...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
10 points

I’m lawyer with a severe stutter. I stutter at every hearing, every deposition. I still get paid and have good relationships with clients and some judges/opposing counsel. It’s rough, especially at f...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
2 points

Yes. But you can choose how to view life and you can choose to work on your stutter using books/therapy. As for being a social part of the world, good luck....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2023
27 points

Low intelligence? You have a degree, Thats HUGE! Doesn't matter what grade is attached to it unless if you want to work in canary walf or wall street. I'm a 23 year old stammerer and I've learnt to ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
3 points

YES, YES & YES!!! I wake and the first words I say are : "This is going to be an AWESOME day!" Self-love & acceptance has propelled me to do whatever the hell I want and I notice a differen...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
1 points

Ty for this post, lets we stutterers keep trying in life! :D...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
2 points

Yes I do the same and still do lol. But I find that we’re too harsh on ourselves on something that we have little to no control over. So nowadays, I tried to think to myself “hey, at least u tried ur ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
1 points

I've stuttered since I remember, with a short break at 5-8 years old and a 'triumphal' comeback as I entered puberty. This sucks and sucks, honestly, a lot. However, I am nearly 40 and have spent 20 ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerEmployment & CareerPublic Speaking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
1 points

My significant other is patient and gracious. She says that she doesn’t notice my stuttering very much. I think I’m my own worst enemy regarding being critical of my speech....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2023
3 points

I haven't been to speech therapy in a long while :') the trajectory has been a little different from me. When I started college, I fell into the right circle, I suppose, so I started my journey toward...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
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