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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

Idk abt that. I can never ask stuff like “could I see an ID” or “I can take whoever’s next” which I needed to get out....

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

Honestly I would be a grocery store cashier if I were you. You interact with people but usually speaking can be kept to a minimum. This will help you with your anxiety which is paramount for a happy l...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
2 points

I've had similar experiences as well, so I understand how stressful this is. I've tried calling random stores and introducing myself and asking questions (like what time they close, if they take cash,...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

Damn, this is pretty much the exact same as me , I thought I was the only one who had a variation like this. I used to have an awful stutter and as I grew older it slowly went away. But letters starti...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

A waitress- and I’ve been one for 13 years now 🤣 I’ve got more anxiety talking to people on the phone than in person though now....

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

I will say the most pronouncable name at that specific time, later on i said some BS like i go by my middle name or smthing like that😁...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

I’ve found that if I make fun of my own stutter first, they lay off. It’s turned into a whole shtick and now I’m comfortable with joking around with people about it. I even have some clever pickup lin...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
4 points

My first job was at a gas station. I remember I was so nervous because of my stutter. I didn't do really well on the cashier so they made me do the cleaning 😅 (cleaning shelves, restrooms, mopping, s...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

Don't panic and overthink. You only feed a stuttering mindset by doing this. I know that it's easier said than done. I had blocks on my name and it went away after a few successful introductions becau...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

It’s similar to me but I get it during mid sentences as well. Only a few people know I stutter though which makes things a lot harder for me as it’s constantly trying to it. People think I’m less conf...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

You are thinking right and your question is valid. With stuttering the more thoughts and energy we put into it the more we support the internal framework that already exists that supports it and gives...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
2 points

yes, I feel very limited in every aspect of life. I had to give up on many of my ambitions and goals because stuttering is progressing more, though once I thought that it maybe would become not so sev...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
2 points

Interesting that you mention that. At one point I decided to remove any language that was tied to stuttering. I realized these words carried a significant amount of emotion and this emotion increased ...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
3 points

This is the one that hurts. I was at work and had a bad block when talking to a high up manager in the company which I have never met, and he said this. We were discussing a very important topic, so t...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
2 points

First of all its a natural feeling , however you have to accept it. I personally make fun of myself all the time whether internally or when im around people. It s a weird mechanism people tend to rea...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
4 points

I once had to help a customer who had a very thick accent, and I couldn't understand them. I went to answer and stuttered badly, he they walked away. I would of felt bad but I figured I listened to hi...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

My first job was an interpreter on site. Then I've got a position requiring a lot of phone calls and meetings interpretation. Now I am responsible for meetings interpretation, PA announcements and liv...

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commentr/StutterJul 31, 2023
1 points

I really don't agree, or at least for me personally. I've alwase been very social and friendly, but stuttering just has a death grip over my life, like a mental cage. If that were to be lifted then I ...

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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2023
3 points

1. My stutter is developmental, and started in childhood, probably around 1st grade. 2. I have trouble with words that start with H, A, and I. I also have trouble with my name. I mostly block, where...

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postr/StutterJul 30, 2023
10 points

Advice - jobs?

Advice - jobs? As someone who stutters - what was your first job? I’ve been really nervous about applying to places due to my stutter. Do you tell you employer that your stutter? Or will it just come ...

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