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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2023
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Hey, thanks for the kind and supporting words and congrats on your achieved fluency! I've seen a handful of speech therapist in my time and even though it's gotten a bit better, it still didn't make ...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Damn. I feel for you brother, sucks to have ones inability to communicate clearly be mistaken for lack competence. Happened to me more than a few times now. Whats your move now? Gotten another job?...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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I just finished college two month ago. I got my first interview 3 weeks ago. It was the first professional interview I ever do. It was in English (which is my second language). I got straight up rejec...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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The mindset is everything...you have only one life and because this problem (there is much worst in the world) you limit yourself. My speech change when I started to improve other areas of my life,be ...

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postr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Fluency is not the goal. It is a very small portion of the overall goal of "overcoming stuttering". Some insight from a newly-fluent speaker and asking for advice.

Fluency is not the goal. It is a very small portion of the overall goal of "overcoming stuttering". Some insight from a newly-fluent speaker and asking for advice. Hey everyone. I have been speaking f...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Then you don't stutter lol that's the test. Like I said above just practice calmness. Calmness is the major key for me. I couldn't even say my own name in school I used to stutter so bad now because I...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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That right there is your hope. It's your anxiety of knowing you might stutter and someone is listening, not that you do stutter. I used to stutter so bad in school if someone asked me my name I couldn...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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I don’t stutter 99% of the time, but when I actually think about stuttering or get flashbacks to times where I stuttered to people and they have had odd reactions just make me stutter again until I f...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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I have two thoughts for you… first, there is online therapy for stuttering, but the therapist probably needs to be licensed to practice in your area. Where are you? Second, good speech therapy for stu...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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I mean how did you practice to remain calm while talking just like when you are alone. I really want to know. I am trying but not sure it's very difficult for me to remain calm when I need to ask some...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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If you only stutter around people and can talk perfectly inside a room alone then your problem inst stuttering it's anxiety of talking, social anxiety or nervousness or authority levels. Once you mast...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Yes, I always think that I will definitely get rid of this. If I am able to talk alone then I must practice to make my environment when talking in groups same as I am alone so that I won't stutter. It...

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postr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Job Interviews

Job Interviews Let me start by saying, I try not to be one to throw pity parties for myself or encourage others to do that. But man, job interviews have really got me down and feeling shit about myse...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Keeping eye contact is very uncomfortable, but I force myself to because I feel like it is something that I can control, and it gives me confidence during a conversation. For me personally, maintainin...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2023
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Its not going to happen for 99% of us. Achieving perfect fluency in adulthood is close to an impossibilty believing in some no stutter miracle only leads to heart break, sadness and more anxiety and d...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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The thing that helped me the most with anxiety is my speech therapist reminding me I'm not weird/strange for stuttering. She told me to just say I have a stutter before starting a conversation with s...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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Same here bro. I like a girl in my office but not able to talk to her. Don't know why? When I see her I just start shaking inside, so don't know if I can ever talk to her...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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I think I figured out how I started stuttering

I think I figured out how I started stuttering I've been stuttering from age 5 and I'm also a long time anxiety sufferer. Recently I have experienced a phenomenon and I think it serves as a good ind...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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Handling stutter in online class

Handling stutter in online class Hi guys, hope you're doing well on the life journey. Today is my first day in my online class. It's a stressful experience and I'm exhausted when my teacher speaks to...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2023
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Eye contact

Eye contact Do you keep eye contact with your interlocutor during a stuttering attack?...

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