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commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
11 points

I just did a presentation for the first time in a while. It was only a few minutes long. What helped my anxiety was telling myself to OWN IT. except it, embrace it, know that you WILL have blocks and ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
3 points

Asking this years ago I would’ve had an answer but today looking back truly nothing. As I’m well into my journey I’ve learned every opportunity I’ve let go because of my stutter forced me into a direc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
2 points

Try this - start talking like John Wayne (actor). I’ve discovered that I can talk fluently by doing this. You may sound like an idiot in your own mind, but you will be able to speak fluently. I loathe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
3 points

im 16 years old, also with a stutter. check out Ken Sema, he's a footballer who also stutters, listen to one of his interviews. You've got to accept your stutter and work with it, a major thing i expe...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
16 points

The tricky thing about stuttering is the more you try to "solve" it, the bigger it becomes and the more it takes over your life. Stuttering is not a _problem_ or something to be solved. It is simply a...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
2 points

>*Any book recommendations would be helpful* I read 100s of books. The most interesting and important books that helped me to improve stuttering are research stutter books, researchgate or similar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
10 points

I've tried a few things over the years and some have helped for a little while but then old habits returned. But I've found a new method: acceptance. I've accepted that I stutter and that it's perfec...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

I always make a point to talk to other stutterers, I find it interesting their lives experiences and some camaraderie....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
1 points

Nah I just believe god gave us all different tests and it’s up to us on how we react to said tests...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

What is not (morally) expected regarding stuttering? What do you consider supererogatory in relation to stuttering?

What is not (morally) expected regarding stuttering? What do you consider supererogatory in relation to stuttering? This post is linked to [this](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVl5kMXz1vA) YT video....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

Right?? You get out in the real world and no one’s grading your presentation on your stutter. They’re listening for the information that you know that they need! Stuttering doesn’t change the fact tha...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
2 points

Yes. Honestly ‘acceptance’ is like… the worst feeling in the world. It’s not a feel good moment. It’s the realization that your worst fear might actually be your reality. Your hope for fluency is bein...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
postr/StutterMar 27, 2023
22 points

Advice needed

Advice needed Hi everyone, 1st time poster here. I am a life-long stutterer and I went to a new dentist today and noticed that he also stutters as well. I was fluent during the whole appt and at the ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
3 points

Luckily my friends are all accepting of my stutter and my best friend even has a stutter herself so I'm lucky I just thought I'd post this cos I'm sure some people can relate...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
1 points

>*I posted on here before about this, but this came at the tail end of a spout of alcoholism I was battling at the time. For years I thought this was the root cause* I agree with you, a traumatic ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
3 points

I'm a recovering alcoholic and only in AA did I straighten out some underlying issues I'd had, like growing up in a mad alcoholic home. It's possible, but I'm not sure, that starting to lose the fea...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
1 points

>*What are your thoughts on elongating the start of the sentence while talking to reduce blocks?* [This](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/11rfl5e/what_is_stutter_or_stammer/) post discuss...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2023
4 points

It’s funny how we’re kinda the same. Im two days away from my 32 birthday and I too realized a long time ago that everything is gonna be ok. The biggest thing for me was just having the confidence to ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2023
2 points

On the contrary, I firmly believe stuttering has actually benefited my life more than but up barriers. The thoughtfulness and opportunities for empathy have far outweighed the annoyance of getting stu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2023
11 points

First sentence hits real close to home, that's a really great way of describing it. I'm in college now and just starting to hit the "shit, it's not going away" point. Trying my best to try and accept ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life