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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2018
4 points

As with most fears, this is a silly one. For one, you have no control or influence over a relative's fluency. It's not like you were the one to pass on those genetics, so your feelings of guilt or bla...

Causes & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Genetic & Family FactorsValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2018
2 points

It is perfectly normal to feel the way you do. Do your friends know you stutter? Sometimes people just don't realize it although it seems obvious. Perhaps you can talk to a few of them about it, per...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyPublic Awareness / MediaAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2018
1 points

Yep, not dying is always a good sign! Glad you feel good about it most of it though. and I feel like,, when we always stick to what we wrote, we don’t always sound as natural. ...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2018
2 points

I got back two days ago and I am proud to say I didn't laugh even once. We talked about it with my friends and we just decided not to look at each other while he's talking and we kinda got used to it ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
4 points

I tried this with someone who I met and it worked out great! I found some friends who seem genuinely interested in what i have to say for which i am very grateful. One of them even has a severely stut...

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Hope & MotivationFluency TechniquesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
4 points

So people should just guess whether their question has been asked before? If you don’t stutter, you probably won’t have any idea how common it is to be asked something like that. In my opinion, as l...

Coping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
1 points

I can see how that question and those like it get old though. For every person to ask that question once, people who stutter frequently will be asked that question 50-100 times just based on the perce...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
2 points

Lol how do people get the idea that your husband is violent based on him telling the kid how screwed up his mocking is? Your hubby sounds awesome. He did the right thing and I would have definitely f...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
3 points

The biggest one for me is that everyone that I tell I have a stutter too says they also have one. No. They don’t. ...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2018
9 points

After a presentation that you stuttered through, "you did well!" Idk if they mean well or if they're being condescending...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
6 points

People saying “it’s ok!” Ah thank you I needed you to validate that my stutter was ok I am at peace now...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
3 points

"My cousin/Uncle/brother/friend stutters" GTFO with that, I've met nearly no one what who stutters and you conveniently know people who do? I appreciate then wanting me to feel comfortable, but don't ...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
4 points

Nitpicking.. I would phrase it as "everyone has dysfluencies to some level" - but you're right - it's not the same. An SLP student asked about an exercise for their class - pretending to stutter in p...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
3 points

Different angle: Empathizing isn't an impossibility, and perspectivizing is a common conversational element. So actually, I think it can be genuine. We have to allow for the opportunity of others di...

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Validation & EmpathyResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
11 points

>"It's okay, I stutter sometimes too" That's technically correct for most people. But I don't think it's conceived of in entirely the same way (and who knows if it's even due to the same factors)....

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
5 points

It just shows that there have zero understanding of what it is. A lot of people don't even know stuttering is a thing....

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
15 points

I don't really see anything wrong with asking if you stutter in your head. It's a question, people want to understand what you're going through....

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy
postr/StutterJul 24, 2018
57 points

Shit 'non-stutterers' say

Shit 'non-stutterers' say Fell free to comment any responses or questions you've encountered from people that don't stutter. I've listed a few that really grind my goddamn gears. "Just slow down" "...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2018
2 points

>Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind As other's have said, it does get easier the older you get. I've found a high percentage of people are more interested in what I have ...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2018
1 points

It is very easy to forget! I'm grateful for the reality checks I'm given every day I come to work. Thank you for reading. ...

Community & Support
Validation & Empathy