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commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

I’ve always thought my autism was more to blame than my stuttering....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
8 points

I think it has to do with not being authentic. When we try to hide our stutter, we become more close off and boring....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
2 points

I have started to talk much more slowly and it is really helping. However I feel that I have lost a certain amount of my charm/charisma merely by the act of slowing down my speech...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 25, 2022
17 points

Your state of mind compared to the severity of your stutter?

Your state of mind compared to the severity of your stutter? If we are being honest with our selves in calculating the impact of our stutter has on our everyday lives from an emotional and mental stan...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Understanding the language of your mind, the images we present to ourselves, the meaning we place on these images and certain events etc are all important aspects of understanding the problem. Just tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
3 points

I don't stutter, but my daughter does. Of course I'm fond of her, I love everything about her including her stutter. I'm very hopeful that one day she meets someone to spend her life with that loves h...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
2 points

I was in same situation as you are now. I have stutter my whole life. I have a problem that i want to treat it, i had some moments when i self motivated my self but now while i want to practice, somet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Not sure this is a dating subreddit. People are more than their stuttering. Having the connection that both of you stutter is not going to make a successful relationship. I recommend advertising yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I already do accept "weird" people. Hence why I used quotation marks. If someone treats me with respect, I will reciprocate it My problem is that society groups us in the same group as someone who do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
10 points

I think that would help a lot of people to. So here's what has helped my speach. Speech therapy, reading out loud, practicing words to myself. Also improving my mental and emotional health has been th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
16 points

The blog post is nice and I completely agree with normalizing stutter, but IMO the writer glorifies this thing too much. > Stuttering is a difference, not an impediment. Yes, it’s hard to stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

I do love myself. I know what my strengths are and I appreciate myself for my individual qualities. The problem is that it doesn't change how difficult it is for me to connect with people socially, a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Could be the case, but I've yet to meet a PwS who could be considered as charismatic or a "social butterfly". Then again, I haven't met that many PwS in the first place....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Oh yeah I remember watching that movie when I was 12 with my friend. I thought it was so awesome. I wasn't really into the horror aspect of the movie but I really liked how it was basically about kids...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
8 points

Your stutter may be a nightmare to you, but to the vast majority of other people you meet in the world, it's just a trait. A girl I had a crush on in college had a mild lazy eye. I would never, ever h...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
6 points

It feels kind of infantilizing. It’s probably a well intended compliment but that doesn’t mean you have to like it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
2 points

I have a stutter and feel dumb. Can I join?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
21 points

I’m about the biggest negative nancy you’ll find in this group, but that is one thing I never minded. Like you said, stuttering has held you back from basically everything in your life. Trust me, I f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2022
1 points

Many years ago, I accepted the fact I would most likely stutter until the day I die. I no longer care if people laugh at me, because I think I maxed out of the hurt that could cause me in junior high....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2022
5 points

People don't normally tell me to spit it out. They sometimes interrupt me and act like I wasn't talking. And I do talk slang sometimes to help my stutter. Remember, stuttering is ok....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride