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commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
3 points

Confidence, just realize that when you're alone you don't stutter with your name so why would you with other people? And if you do stutter who cares, the more you care the more people will care but if...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 19, 2023
18 points

Stuttering in Class

Stuttering in Class I just want to share my experience here. 2 hours ago, I was at school and I decided to go home early because I really can't handle the embarrassment after I've just talked in front...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
2 points

Hi, Resident_Frame, I think you are referring to my comment that I still talk to myself? We’ll, I stuttered most of my life age 5-70. Because we stutterers often don’t stutter when talking to ourselve...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
5 points

I'm so proud of you! Reading your achievements and how far you've come has just made my day. Hoping all the more for you now 💓...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 18, 2023
22 points

Appreciation

Appreciation I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate how far I've come and everyone that has helped me. I remember being in my room half a year ago, lying in bed hurting myself before Universit...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
4 points

Would it be possible to pay for a speech therapist instead? Now would be a perfect time to go. In my experience the more you cater to your stutter the more it ‘controls’ you, so to speak...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
1 points

20 years of speech therapy?damn, i've never been to any therapies lol.. yeah, man.. acceptance it is. It sucks though how some are left with it and some overcame it or more, how and why is there a st...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
2 points

This! The amount of time and mental energy I spent trying to “cure” my stutter or hide it … smh I ended up feeling like a complete failure every day. This is just my experience, but after 20 years of ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2023
8 points

I would like to share this story: I was at an event in my hometown and I saw someone from high school that I hadn't seen in years! We didn't go to the same school but we regularly hung out and parti...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2023
7 points

Have you ever felt like your stuttering defines who you are as a person?

Have you ever felt like your stuttering defines who you are as a person? **A) Yes, I feel like my stuttering defines who I am:** You feel that your stuttering is a central aspect of your identity, an...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 17, 2023
86 points

Our Waiter this weekend had a stutter

Our Waiter this weekend had a stutter I’m nearly 45 years old and I’ve stuttered all my life. As kid and into my early 20s it was fairly severe. Mine manifested as a distortion of my mouth and tongue ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
3 points

Crypt... It's still sad that your dad isn't supportive all the time. Did you get speech therapy? I never did. It took me until I was 70 to become totally fluent. Keep doing all you can to improve. S...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Family Support & ConflictSeeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
7 points

I never stuttered in my head but I still talk to myself because many of us stutterers are only fluent when we are talking to ourselves. I have overcome my stuttering after 65 years but the self-talk s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationTrauma & PsychologicalAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
8 points

So sad to have your parents reject you for something you have no control over. My parents marginalized me, never got me speech therapy and generally abused me because I was imperfect. I did marry a w...

Causes & VariabilityTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalSeeking TherapyAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
0 points

If she's telling you to do it to avoid a block, that's the wrong intention before voluntary stuttering. Voluntary stuttering is primarily used to take on the role of the person who stutters even you d...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

So we’re supposed to live like hermits and bow down to those without a stutter? It’s not selfish to try to be confident and live normally. You’re making it sound like we owe something to everyone we i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

Love the thoughts. As a PWS, and a father of a sub who has apraxia and stuttering, I want to make sure that my son not have the negative thoughts about stuttering that I did (or at least not all of t...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Genetic & Family FactorsAcceptance & PrideHome Support
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
2 points

Sorry to hear that. I definitely feel ya. Acceptance + time has made me mostly fluent in my singing voice again, but it took so long… It haunts. That’s a good word for it....

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideSituational Variability
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
3 points

Fluency isn't the only game in town. In my opinion it's the sisyphean path. You can work towards everything you want from fluency (ease, spontaneity, saying everything you want to say) while still hav...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
0 points

Kudos to you for pushing through and asking your question during the Annual General Meeting! Your attitude is truly inspiring. It's great that you're embracing your stutter and focusing on what truly ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation