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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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What Meat said! Acceptance and embracing are difficult in their own rights. Depending on the situation I have started disclosing. It is hard, but for me... almost 50 years of avoidance, word switching...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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No, why would I? I just ask for extra time during presentations. My parents forced me to live my life mostly just as someone who doesn't have a speech impediment, and I did lots of presentations at hi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Interview help.

Interview help. I got rejected every interview I attended. They think Iam nervous. But when I say my problem to them then they rejects saying my communication skills are not good.How you guys handle t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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I did not. My courses didn't require lots of presentations. I skipped lots of the presentations I had (losing their grades). The few I did went horrible, all of them. I was stuttering like never befor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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I opted out and went with private tuitions for the international degree of ACCA. Otherwise college & uni would have been hell. Mind you, I had a sever stutter that had changed into a mild one due ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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Did you drop out of university or college because of stuttering?

Did you drop out of university or college because of stuttering? I personally was studying paintings and visual arts, when we had practice that only deals with drawings and paintings, I managed to suc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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How does one stop that influence of picking up stutter ? My finance stutters...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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My fiancé stutters and I’m picking it up too :(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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How do you stop being influenced then by stutterers ?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
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How does one stop mirroring this ? I have my fiancé who stutters . Of late I have realised that I have a mild stutter ( unconscious ) . How do I stop mirroring it ?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I speak Urdu (Pakistan) as well as English. I consider myself to be an "English" speaker and Urdu as my second tongue. I often stutter when talking in Urdu. So I have a good English vocabulary and whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I've been speaking english on discord and noticed a few things.

I've been speaking english on discord and noticed a few things. Hello guys, to start off.. my first language is spanish and i've been studying english seriously 2 years ago. I can say that my speaking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I'm working remotely and mostly I communicate by sending messages. And I found I speak better in English rather than in my mother language. I dont know why:)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I find myself substituting words that confuse the other person or people. And sp that works for some but at times I find myself saying whatever is close enough and sometimes that throws the entire con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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That’s great. At least the way I did it, I got paid for it 😂 sorry no shade I’m 41 and have been stuttering my entire life. It didn’t just randomly happen one day. I still can’t say my own name whi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Identity & Self-PerceptionFrustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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That's interesting. Thanks for replying. I've heard of several people who stutter who are more fluent in foreign languages. I can relate to stumbling after unexpected questions. I try to take my time...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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My native language is Russian, the other one is Kazakh (not frequently spoken though), English is a first foreign language. Decent fluency is for all of these languages, but sometimes I can't say my n...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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I always struggle for words while speaking

I always struggle for words while speaking There's a fact i stutter but i too don't know how to explain myself to others,i can't come up with words while speaking . I am able to hide my stutter in sho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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Firstly the person at your friends house seems really rude as someone with a stutter I completely understand the anxiety you may feel. I always let the person know I stutter before I answer any questi...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
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Sounds like you're doing really well and are overcoming some issues, which is awesome. I'm curious. Obviously you speak more than one language. How is your stutter in your non-native language(s) com...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & Substitution