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commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2015
1 points

Well I do hope it doesn't become a pattern. Maybe it won't since we're aware of it, unlike avoiding eye contact or something. Best of luck!...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2015
3 points

I'm a 30 year old female. My stuttering ranges from forming a complete fluent sentence to total blocks on the next. It's random for me day to day. I've often thought I would be a happier person if I d...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2015
2 points

Wow, I feel almost the exact same. I've always wondered if my impediment could be overcome or if I have to work with it, which basically means stuttering all of the time and being okay with that. Just...

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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2015
1 points

Well I do know some excellent SLPs who are pws, but I think I know even more who aren't. And they totally get it. Oftentimes I think they get it better than me, so dont count them out. Being fluent is...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2015
2 points

Thank you for taking the time to respond. Congratulations on graduating and your accounting job! I've actually been thinking about going into accounting myself. Adjusting to a job will be the hardest ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2015
2 points

I graduated this August, I was under the impression life was going to suck and literally take me 2 years to find a job. Been working as an accountant at a small business for 2.5 months now. I have to ...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerQuality of LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2015
3 points

You're right, he shouldn't be ashamed, but as Im sure you know, it takes effort and practice to get to that point....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2015
1 points

Thank you. Its not that Im not happy for experiencing these moments but when they happen more often than not I feel kind of like I don't deserve it for some twisted odd reason. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2015
1 points

Thank you, nice to hear your opinion, and after reading your text I'm sure that you are doing great in your job! I'm really touched by what you are writing. And I couldn't agree more. It's sad that th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2015
1 points

Well, maybe you're just being too harsh on yourself somehow. Being a stutterer certainly doesn't require you to fail your speech constantly, in order to "deserve" the label. All you can do is be glad ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

I used to use word substitutions and whispering (lots and lots of whispering). Now I don't. But when I get those moments of how I used to talk (fluent but with tricks) I still feel like I'm somehow de...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

Between the ages of high school and now I was a covert stutterer (or at least I thought I was one). Since I'm now as open about it as I can be, I guess apart of me feels guilty not so much for being f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

*That was a typo. But this explanation still holds I think.* --- I shouldn't and that's the rub. I am just a person who happens to have a disconnect with the majority of people and the way they spea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

I took a communications class this last semester and obviously having to do oral presentations forced me to be more open about my stutter. I wouldn't say that I usually advertise, as I firmly believe ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2015
1 points

I wouldn't feel guilty, but it's a bit awkward. People often generalise and fail to see the complexity of stuttering and might think you're simulating, but you shouldn't feel guilty, because people wh...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2015
1 points

I can acknowledge that I probably communicate a sense of frustration at times when I'm struggling to get my words out. So yes, when family or whomever else will avoid starting a conversation, although...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential AssociationShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterJan 22, 2015
18 points

I LOVE YOU

I LOVE YOU It breaks my heart reading all of your posts because I can relate to everything. This is a BIG struggle. Stuttering is so intense that it's insane. What is it, why is it? I always ask mysel...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
3 points

Stuttering has taken a massive shit on my emotions and outlook on life. If I didn't stutter I would have maybe been outgoing because of how I am at home with my family. I talk a lot and crack jokes al...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
2 points

I think we all have the same feelings here. Seeing the obvious greener grass and all those things a fluent voice can bring. I mean, you've probably sat there listening to nonsense and wanted to correc...

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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2015
3 points

I can't agree with you more on "doesn't let me be happy". I am not really depressed or suicidal, but deep down I am not happy with myself and in some way with God (sorry for the religious reference th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more