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commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
2 points

Great questions. Happy to help. 1. Does stuttering bother you? *Not any more. But, it did when I was younger. I found it very frustrating that I could not express myself or that people would not...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFluency TechniquesFrustration & Anger+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
7 points

I have so much anger about everything. I don't know how to deal with it.

I have so much anger about everything. I don't know how to deal with it. I feel an incredible amount of anger and bitterness towards the world. I'm angry at how people mock others, make fun of disabil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
7 points

fake friends, pity parties.

fake friends, pity parties. recently ive been feeling like my closest friend is mostly just been throwing me a pity party, im getting these feelings by things he says here and there, changing plans, s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
1 points

That's honestly whats most frustrating about stuttering. At certain topics i actually have a lot of knowledge and im able to articulate it really well in my head or text but most of the time i pull my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
2 points

Nothing.  I stay calm. Learn mindfulness meditation and the concept "beware of the second arrow". Yes we stutter but adding internal dialogue is unhelpful and just makes it worse.  Stutter.  Yes it ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Mindfulness & BreathingFrustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2025
1 points

I was sensitve kid - I often cried. A bit neglected emotionally etc. My "dad" yelled most of the time, like it was default agressive voice tone. He didn't teach me anything, didn't talk, didn't hug me...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
1 points

Stutter shaping your identity

Stutter shaping your identity Hi, does anyone feel that there stutter has significantly shaped part of there identity. People who have had it young, do you feel you lead a fulfilling life without bei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
6 points

Motivation

Motivation I stutter my whole life. Its pretty hard. I guess the fear and anxiety is probally harder then the stutter itself. We came across so much frustation, humiliation, fear. At most pain of r...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2025
1 points

Meeting so many PWS actually made me cry the first time. I had never been in a room where there were so many people that knew exactly what it is like to struggle so hard… A few months later the chapte...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
2 points

When I am in soliloquy mode I am able to speak the words I otherwise get stuck on. Idk why I stutter when I am talking with someone else be it my mother, my sister, my closest family, so it's not like...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationStress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
3 points

yeah i feel you. it really hit me the other day when i was trying to read something to someone and they said "i'll just read it for you" and had me hand it over. i felt so useless, ashamed, and angry...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
4 points

The blocking occurs because of anxiety, a frustration at stuttering. When you don't want to say "b-b-b-bread", you force yourself to be able to say the rest of the word, which gradually turns into a b...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & AngerFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2025
2 points

I hate, hate, hate it when they assume bad intention from apparent pauses and secondary behaviors. There's always that one or two bastards who do this, and keep doing this even after explanations. Thr...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
13 points

I wish I was doing something to deal w/ it lol… Just hating it. And being stressed about my life situation right now doesn’t help either. So uh yeah, I hate it. The amount of jealousy I have for peopl...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
1 points

the issue is that I think all this stuttering happened bcz I get a trauma from finding out that I don't have a father bcz he left me and never looked for me and having only my single mom living in my ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
2 points

if they wanna stutter so badly they can take mine...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/stutteringFeb 18, 2025
1 points

Me! Stuttered since I was young oddly enough when I am really angry my stutter goes away! 🤣🤣🤣...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
2 points

This may vary, but as a stutterer, there are times when I speak and I cannot get words out and it causes me to become frustrated + flustered + (enter other emotion here) at myself, and it's not at *yo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2025
2 points

Not being about to do something as easy as calling to schedule an appointment, order food, soak certain words, introducing yourself, etc, it’s so frustrating!!...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
10 points

Yep, even going up to the shops has you planning over and over again the words to say, and yet you still can't say it when you get there! totally frustrating and gets you really down...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger