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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2025
2 points

Sorry just now seeing this!! Wish I had a clear answer for you. I’m currently listening to “Rewire your Anxious Brain”… it made me realize that the emotional load stuttering causes is a learned beha...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2025
1 points

I stutter, I just finished law school, and I’m pretty solid at interviews. If you don’t accept yourself it’s going to be hard for other people to accept you. I have a moderate stutter, it’s present in...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2025
10 points

Yes. Trying to change this pattern currently. I tend to talk with a “stutter filter” on constantly.. it’s like prison. But, good thing is, we can change our mindset and rewire our brains!...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingMindset shiftNeurological & Brain
postr/StutterApr 30, 2025
30 points

Does anybody else feel like they'll never get to be themselves?

Does anybody else feel like they'll never get to be themselves? I get that we all have our flaws but I feel like severe stuttering really filters the real me. The fact that I can't express my personal...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 29, 2025
8 points

I want to accept my stutter without letting hateful comments get to me

I want to accept my stutter without letting hateful comments get to me For a couple years I’ve been “suppressing” my stutter bc I didn’t want my bf to make fun of me, but he says it’s cute so I try no...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 28, 2025
5 points

sharing my NEW strategy toward stuttering recovery or subconscious fluency

sharing my NEW strategy toward stuttering recovery or subconscious fluency I’d like to share a personal strategy that’s been meaningful to me towards stuttering remission. **Introduction:** First. W...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterApr 27, 2025
16 points

The Only Solution

The Only Solution I’m writing this for myself as I do not want to forget it, but I really hope it can help someone out there. Avoidance, fear, trying desperately to blend in, saying the words in your ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
postr/StutterApr 27, 2025
5 points

I think we should accept stuttering. so how does acceptance change our subconscious evaluation process just before we speak / stutter?

I think we should accept stuttering. so how does acceptance change our subconscious evaluation process just before we speak / stutter? **Accepting stuttering**: acceptance of stuttering can mean a lot...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoss of Control+1 more
postr/StutterApr 26, 2025
8 points

Mindset

Mindset Anyone else have a special mindset (bored, tired, arrogant), during which you don't stutter, or is it just me? If yes, then what mindsets or moods do you make yourself fall into?...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 26, 2025
9 points

Problem is we really believe in our stutter?

Problem is we really believe in our stutter? I know it is, but i just dont know how to change it. Like if i had an amnesia, i'd speak normally again, but thats not an option :D I was at a wedding thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterApr 21, 2025
55 points

Acknowledging your stutter in an interview affects the interviewers perception of you

Acknowledging your stutter in an interview affects the interviewers perception of you Hi everyone, I want to highlight a recent study looking at how interviewers perceive stutterers when they acknowl...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 20, 2025
8 points

Mindset tips that are making me fluent

Mindset tips that are making me fluent Just going to put out my recent helpful you can, just simply try to take it slower and softer when there is a block. That means, when you sense a block coming, f...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
7 points

They grew up on food stamps, he never went to college (although his siblings all did on financial aid). He is incredibly brilliant and had an insanely supportive, progressive mother, so definitely sta...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
1 points

Fascinating that some kids become fluent after 3 years.  I've heard of this and forgotten.  I can imagine them being so comfortable and not caring to such an extent that they don't think twice about i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
2 points

>"Although now they seem to be taking a more psychological approach with exceptance \[acceptance\]" Yes I agree. However, the problem with the "acceptance" component that speech therapy uses is. that...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
6 points

I've had a girlfriend for over 4 years and have dated quite a lot before that. If anything, dating has helped me build confidence in myself. Speech therapy hasn't helped for me either and tbh it still...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
1 points

With friends and with family members yeah because we feel comfortable around them that's why we speak much fluently with them....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
3 points

The last line is very enlightening. Totally make sense for me, because the harder I've try to be fluent, the worser it gets. And my high fluency has times are always been when I wasn't conscious about...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
14 points

Ironically, that’s what James Earl Jones used to say too. He used to comment about how when he was alone he could talk just fine and I think he said it was when he was talking to his animals that he w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2025
4 points

Talking to yourself at home feels safe and effortless because there’s no judgment, no audience. Even when speaking alone, if we record a voice message, it can totally flip the switch and trigger stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationAuthenticity vs. Masking