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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2023
1 points

I talked slower and with stops that helped me beat my stutter. My anxiety to speak has reduced tremendously. How do you explain that?...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
3 points

I felt exactly how the OP felt when I was in my college years. About the age of 30, I realized I would be dead relatively soon and I should get something out of this life, or what’s the point of even ...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
11 points

I'm going to be honest. This constant self hatred is a big part of the problem, you have to love yourself and don't let the stutter win. I know it sounds stupid, but believing in your self and staying...

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Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2023
3 points

Mild stutterer here, and I’m 30 and I go through the phases. Phases come and go with no rhyme or reason. Sometimes I’m happy/confident and I stutter, and sometimes I’m down/antisocial and I’m fluent. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
-9 points

so you don't have friends either let's practice NoFap it will give you confidence to talk to others because your stuttering will get better...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
4 points

Gotta say, warehouse jobs pay $20-$25/hr in the southern US. No speaking to anyone. That’s decent money, easy-ish and may offer overtime also. And you got a car to get there. I did it making $14/hr in...

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Employment & CareerSadness & HopelessnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

Wishing for that will do nothing for you. None of us choose to be born, yet here we are. Living life with a disability isn’t impossible....

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

Hang in there dude, life is worth living. I went to Hollins Communications Research Institute (HCRI) in Virginia a few years ago and it really helped me. I went from being afraid of the phone, publi...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
5 points

Get a short term job that require minimal to no interaction with others until you get your self together.. Sorta foctory job or any manual labour job. Sometimes you become so stressed in life, the st...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

May not seem like it now, but it's better that things have ended sooner than later. If she left you over something you have no control over, something that can improve with time then she isn't worth y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

Yeah I totally agree with what you say,I’m really trying to accept the way I am, I think I’ve made progress compared to years ago but I still have a lot of work to do on my self . Thank you very much ...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
26 points

First of all, she was NOT the one for you. If a person truly loves you, the stutter is a moot issue. You are FRICKIN AMAZING and don't you forget that. Second, search in Google "Stuttering help ne...

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commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
3 points

I'm sorry about your girlfriend. I'm sure you'll find someone who's even better. For me, it's about being comfortable, confident, and most of all not caring too much....

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

You absolutely can be perceived as sexy with a stutter! Especially when you own it! I know lots of attractive people of all gender orientations who stutter. If someone doesn't think you're beautifu...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

You’ll also get a sense of “the fish in the sea” which can be an eye opener. You’ll probably find that you’re more of a catch than you thought....

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
3 points

The advice I’ll give you is the advice I would give anyone who has something “unsexy” about them that’s dragging their confidence down. Try to find the things about yourself that you do find sexy. T...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
4 points

People that are worth keeping around won't care 😊 Everyone has problems! 24 is a pretty rough time for dating though - a lot of people that age haven't matured enough to be empathetic. Things will g...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

Hey! I'm a person who stutters and also interned at an early-stage startup during my college years. I currently work in the venture capital industry and always encourage PWS to go work for startups. W...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
16 points

Was worried about this my whole life. However started dating and i observed that if someone will like you they wouldn't care about stutter AT ALL. Now in a relationship for more than a year. Just go f...

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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

I’m not really focusing on applying this to speech but more trying to shift my mindset to be more positive and optimistic about my speech which I think will in turn help me speak more fluent. But, I f...

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Mindset shiftHope & Motivation