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commentr/StutterMay 5, 2025
2 points

Yessss, this ^^^^^ I’m a woman with a stutter and it seems like this thread doesn’t seem to understand that the stutter itself is NEVER the issue, it’s all about how the man carries himself. I mean, i...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
7 points

just a reminder for everyone here that anybody that rejects you for something like a speech impediment was going to be a terrible shallow partner anyway...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

Dress well and hold a smile while talking. You can open with, “Hi, I stutter but I wanted to tell you I like your shoes” or something like that. They’re probably gonna be blushing. Women have been app...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
1 points

Do women like being approached? Just curious. Anyone can comment! I’m a woman and hate being approached. Btw I stutter....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

I’m a woman with a stutter who dates men. Bars are super hard. Have you tried dating apps so you could message/text first? Get some banter going and tell the woman you stutter. Get a reaction, and mov...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

There’s people who don’t have stutters who struggle with approaching women. Use that to your advantage....

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
3 points

I struggle with communicating with anyone in general, including women. There were times with certain women, where a relationship was possible, but my insecurity and attempt to avoid emotional intimacy...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

If you have a friend who has the same goals as you in approaching women, but who speaks fluently, ask him if he wouldn't mind being your wingman. Because two people going out approaching women isn't s...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
1 points

Think any guy who has it is mostly struggling. Know I am. Shit I get ghosted before they even hear me...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
3 points

Yeah in general but especially with women I’m attracted to in approach type situations. I almost never do it unless it’s obvious she wants me to....

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
10 points

Yup, and I have entirely avoided it so far. Well, not really. I once told a girl I liked her in college and she rejected me. The second one I did over Whatsapp and the same result, lol....

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Dating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
12 points

I struggle talking to everyone not just women. It feels like I have the entire conversation in my mind of how to talk to them and how to start a conversation but when I go near them my stuttering just...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2025
2 points

I struggling communicating with women due to my stuttering speech...

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Dating & Romance
postr/StutterMay 4, 2025
19 points

Does Anyone Else Struggle With Approaching Women?

Does Anyone Else Struggle With Approaching Women? I see a lot of beautiful women in my city. I really want to approach them, but my stutter always gets in the way. I know I’m not the only guy experien...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2025
2 points

Stuttered my whole life. I stopped having friends in my early teens. I'm almost 28 now and just been working and taking care of myself since 17. Never dated or anything. No education yet as I don't ha...

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Loneliness & IsolationDating & RomanceEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterApr 25, 2025
10 points

Today was a very awkward day.

Today was a very awkward day. You know I’m very confident with myself. But today’s interaction was plain weird. I took out an order for a customer, and just my mind has been thinking and stuff work re...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
postr/StutterApr 23, 2025
2 points

Trying poetry for the first time - please be nice 😅

Trying poetry for the first time - please be nice 😅 If you guys like my poem about stuttering and relationships - click the link so I can get a view on substack 😉 https://open.substack.com/pub/joedo...

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Personal StoriesDating & RomanceRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterApr 23, 2025
31 points

Stuttering making me think it's better to stay single....

Stuttering making me think it's better to stay single.... Like imagine going on a date to a restaurant and you struggling to order food( happend me today w my friends but one of my friend got my back)...

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Quality of LifeDating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 17, 2025
20 points

Stutter, chronic avoidance, and scared about the future

Stutter, chronic avoidance, and scared about the future I know this doesn’t apply to every stutterer, but for me in particular, I’ve avoided things I enjoy and social situations with people I like eve...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
postr/StutterApr 15, 2025
10 points

Does anyone feel insecure while having a stutter in a relationship?

Does anyone feel insecure while having a stutter in a relationship? I’ve been with my girlfriend for pretty much half a year already and we are on track to hit a year and more to come. I will say I’m ...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment