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commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
11 points

People assuming that I'm stuck up or pretentious because I'm quiet and don't make contributions to discussions or initiate conversations. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
10 points

Not being able to say "thank you" because I don't want to stutter on the word "thank," and beating myself up over the fact that the person probably thinks that I'm an ungrateful ass. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
3 points

I also need an answer to this, I need to know how to reply to this. Because it seems like...blind sympathy if you know what I mean. Struggling on a word once or dealing with it when you're REALLY nerv...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
2 points

I was in show choir during high school and we ended up doing a show for a local free mason group. Our teacher decides we're all going to introduce ourselves. I stumbled over my name, completely butch...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2016
3 points

In 8th grade I won this student of the year award, and had to attend this ceremony. Prior to the ceremony I had no idea that each person from each school had to go up and say there name and what schoo...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2016
4 points

I am bilingual and today a friend asked me how to say "how are you" in my native language. I had a 2 second block and she asked, "did you forget your language?" Ruined my whole day. I absolutely loath...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 22, 2016
1 points

Trying to figure out what I have

Trying to figure out what I have Growing up I stuttered a little. It usually happened when I tried to read from a book. (That sure as fun when I had to read Shakespeare). As I've gotten older (now 24)...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2016
1 points

I sometimes get the feeling they don't think what I'm saying is genuine or sincere when I get hung up on delivery....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2016
1 points

Yea, I just find it hard to 'accept' something that's screwed with my life so much. Like, do I see it as my friend? Do I become accepting of a me that isn't able to express themselves how they want an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2016
2 points

I just had a phone interview for a job and blocked two or three times. I wonder what the person on the other end thought? Did they think I don't know what to say or did they pick up on the speech impa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2016
1 points

This guy knows what's up, I've been using all kinds of tricks to hide this shit my whole life and whenever I can feel block coming I just want to hide and die in a corner somewhere, problem is I can't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2016
7 points

Lol same here. I don't want to veer into r/iamverysmart territory but it can be very frustrating feeling like everyone thinks you're an idiot even when you're likely the smartest in the room. Our cult...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2016
2 points

I do think "rather easily" is a bit of a stretch, but i agree do a degree. And to correct i do not say its not a real issue, although i admit the respons implies it. 98% of the issues is caused by th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 13, 2016
21 points

I am so fucking sorry to all you covert stutterers out there.

I am so fucking sorry to all you covert stutterers out there. So i attended a McGuire course some time ago. Met all kinds of stuttereres there. Me myself is a pretty heavy stutterer, and its impossibl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 12, 2016
9 points

Just quit my job because of how I speak

Just quit my job because of how I speak I'm 16 and i have a moderate stutter. I work in an ice cream restaurant where i scoop ice cream and take peoples carry-out orders. Today a women was upset that ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJul 1, 2016
1 points

DAE hate that moment when you begin to stutter and you can visibly see the other person's facial expression change?

DAE hate that moment when you begin to stutter and you can visibly see the other person's facial expression change? [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJun 28, 2016
10 points

I hate saying my name now !

I hate saying my name now ! Some times sutter and some times I don't. It's strange. Whenever I have to tell someone my name, I freeze. I suddenly lock up, I know my name, but it just doesn't want ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2016
5 points

Yes! Because for that split second, the mirror is turned around on you. You can see what others see and it kills you inside...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2016
2 points

I cringe when I hear it. Maybe that's why I'm so covert with mine? ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2016
7 points

Yup, very frustrating indeed. I hate that I have to suppress my personality and myself as a person. Feels like some shitty version of my life not being able to express myself and put myself out there ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking