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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
1 points

My stutter is light-moderate. I just stopped giving a fuck at some point and life has been a lot easier not having to worry about my stutter. It's something you really gotta come to terms with and acc...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

1. Only do what you are comfortable with and at your own pace. No shame in that at all and you shouldn't have to justify it to people. 2. Hiding your stutter making things a lot worse than you think....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
1 points

I am +30 alreay, i had passed the "stutter is damaging my life" part of my life. Gimme the money please....

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
14 points

Bro you are really young, i know what you feel but stuttering is not creep or weird thing. At your age yeah it is hard, but believe me your life will become easier day by day after high school. I am 3...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
5 points

I hear you, just remember that highschool is extra difficult, for many it gets better and better with age. I'm 37 now, and i care a lot less than when i was < 20, life is good now. Stuttering was t...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I feel your pain and anger, I'm 60 and as you say this hatred of my stammer has been with me through my life, and yes it's totally held me back, but there is hope and life of some sorts, even if ...

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Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
5 points

😭holy fuck. šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ¤”šŸ¤”šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­How are you doing better than me. I'm proud that your life isn't totally fucked by your stutter. I'm really impressed that you learned to accept yourself. Also your ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
5 points

it’s not abnormal or normal — it just is. there a no ā€œfalling behindā€ in life just bc you haven’t slept w someone. sex isn’t the highest peak of life. it comes down to choice and circumstance. 22 is...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
7 points

haha, so much to unpack here — 1. I’m 26F 2. yes! I do have a social life — my friends accept me for who I am & I found a partner who loves me unconditionally (never finishes my sentence or anyt...

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postr/StutterJul 7, 2023
12 points

Checking out of socializing.

Checking out of socializing. Yep as of today I officially quit trying to socialize and find friends. I will never accept myself for who I am so I'm done torturing myself. I discovered that my hatred f...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
6 points

I can understand ! I mean tbh I can’t comment on what your sister doing ! She’s living her life ! May be that’s what she wants or she knows what she’s doing.. Your parents are a bit conservative so ...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
4 points

My strategy is always starting with ā€œhow we doin Im Seanā€ lol only gets weird when we’ve been taking initially for 10+ minutes they ask ur name and u say how we doin lmaooooo...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
1 points

Interesting. Even when taking to a stranger for the first time, sometimes I’m ok. Like I don’t stutter, I may stumble over my words but that’s completely normal...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

I just say "hello,my name is..." or "nice to meet you I am..." I try to say my name but when I feel that it doesn't come out I just say that I not die of awkwardness....

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I have a moderate stutter, minor with my friends but I have a lot of social anxiety, I'm scared to ask things, order, introduce myself,...But I wouldn't say I have a weak personality, I'm more compass...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

Honestly even though I have a severe stutter and am in my head a lot, I’m still vocal when I want to be. Don’t let this dictate your lives guys it’s so short enjoy the little time we have!...

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commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
18 points

It used to, then I sought therapy and eventually learned that people didn't care. If I wanted something, I had to go and get it. I powered through blocks and negative thoughts and only focused on ache...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
8 points

I am outgoing, yet I stutter. If someone has a problem with it then it's their problem....

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
11 points

You know why people’s stutter usually gets better as they get older? You give less fucks the older you get. So giving the least amount of fucks is good advice. We are all imprisoned in jails of our...

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commentr/StutterJul 6, 2023
2 points

I kinda accepted the fact that I would block while trying to say my name. I knew there wasn’t much I could do, so I just let myself stutter- as hard as that is. Honestly, the less I give a damn about...

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