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commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
4 points

I'm sorry you had to deal with such ignorance. Next time you deal with that kind of cheap, tell them that stuttering is a disability and ask them if they would make fun of someone in a wheelchair or w...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 1, 2019
2 points

That people can be asshats. People tend to laugh not at you personally but because they never encountered it before., they are nervous....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterMay 1, 2019
18 points

Somebody asked me if I do drugs.

Somebody asked me if I do drugs. I stutter a lot in my english class (I'm in high school) and some guy in my class asks me if I do drugs. I couldn't tell if he was insulting me or what, He asked why I...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
2 points

That can be a good way to think of it. I remember thinking, in highschool after the incidents where they stopped the teasing, anytime anyone from that social circle would comment on my art (I drew in ...

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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
3 points

I am so sorry that kids were mean and bullied you. Your teachers should have put a stop to it. The kids who teased me (porky pig was a popular because I am also overweight) didn't really stop till I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
2 points

This. Kids respect and fear someone that doesn't take shit. ​ OP, you're not an asshole for beating the shit out of a bully. You're doing the right thing for you and for them....

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Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2019
2 points

I'm gonna give you some real "if I could do it again" advice. Don't know your age but my guess is middle to high school. Kids are brutal man. I'd find the smallest kid mocking me and punch him in the ...

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Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
4 points

My advice is either a) Just tell them they are jerks and should just stop. A lot of times, people don't realize that what they are saying is actually hurtful and it's a joke. Try to assume the best a...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
1 points

Middle school and high school are THE WORST. Just do your best to survive and keep your mental health intact. Once you move on to college and real life this kind of thing will be way better because 1....

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Stigma & BullyingSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
3 points

If they are your "friends", talk to them one by one and explain to them that they are hurting your feelings. Tell them you would like them to stop teasing you. If they are bullies, ask a teacher or an...

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
7 points

People are assholes. I've been there, I know it sucks. Maybe stop hanging out with them? You can't control other people's behavior, only your own....

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commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
7 points

Pay no attention to them. They’re opinions mean nothing to you if you don’t care about them. Notify a teacher and have them deal with them...

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postr/StutterApr 24, 2019
18 points

Everyday I get made fun of for my stutter

Everyday I get made fun of for my stutter Everyday if I even make the smallest stutter, a group of 3-4 people always do the mocking thing where they exaggerate your stutter. If this happened once or t...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
3 points

They weren't joking about my stutter leaving, they used to joke about how I used to stutter. It wasn't malicious or anything, they legit thought it was funny/cute I guess....

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
1 points

Why the hell was your family joking about your stutter leaving?...

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Humor & Community ToneStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
1 points

you look deep into his eyes, and if him keep embarrassing you. you are allowed to kill it (as you cant kill, just ignore for the rest of your life)...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
1 points

If it’s a friend, I just laugh with them because they don’t do it a lot and mocking people to me is super funny. Anyone else, I’d shut it down....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
1 points

If it's in front of a group and they're actually being an asshole, I would point out that they're making fun of a disability. Then ask them if they would mock someone who is (insert other disability h...

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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
1 points

It depends on what you mean by mocking. I can only think of 2 or 3 times that's actually happened to me, and most of those people were under the age of 18. The vast majority of time, what feels like...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2019
5 points

I punch them on their arm and then start fake laughing slowly and eventually uncontrollably as they slowly stop mocking my stutter and feel the physical pain I felt emotionally....

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