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commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
3 points

I feel the same just that I turn the hate towards myself, which isn't healthy I know but once you start with that shit you can't stop....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
2 points

This is embarrassing for them - not you. They're the one making fun of someone with a disability that they were unaware of, and in their surprise responded inappropriately. You'd know the feeling if y...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2017
8 points

"Did you forget your own name?" might just be the worst part of stuttering. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2017
7 points

Even if I didn't have a stutter I would rather get punched in the face....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2017
1 points

That's weird, it usually gets better with age. Mine got a bit better but I'm still a mess inside so it doesn't really matter. lmao...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2017
1 points

I dont know mate, haven't tried it yet but doing that seems even more retarded than just straight up stuttering haha. Same as using some retarded accent and being fluent because of it but you feel so ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2017
1 points

It's shame. You might use videos like that as a gauge for your own acceptance if that's what you're trying for. ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2017
4 points

Yeah I know what you mean. My first face to face encounter with another stutter was a few months ago and it caught me so off guard to hear someone stutter in front of me. It made me really insecure a...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterJan 12, 2017
25 points

I completely hate listening to other people stutter.

I completely hate listening to other people stutter. I've been a stutter for as long as I can remember, but whenever I go on youtube or something to look at the experience of other people stuttering, ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
2 points

While I don't agree with his response, I think you're minimizing his feelings. It's hard to grow up being the one who is always on the outside looking in and then just being told to not be negative ab...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
3 points

I was nervous about my stutter earlier in life but eventually discovered it is not a turnoff to the opposite sex at all. What matters is confidence. You probably saw in this sub already but just to ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2017
5 points

Dating seems like a waste of time to me tbh. Also I doubt any girl would want to date some ugly self-loathing cunt like me anyway. Such is life. :^)...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2017
2 points

It's sweet that she said that, but I think the idea of someone finding my stutter attractive would turn me off just due to my history. I'm fine with open discussion and them being curious but I'd draw...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2016
6 points

It's embarrassment, shame. The pain felt when working out will heal, the shame felt by stuttering might make you stronger- "not caring", or might make you weaker. Emotional wounds don't always heal....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2016
1 points

There's nothing to take responsibility for. You haven't done anything wrong & there's nothing wrong with you. It's simply part of who you are & something you have to learn to cope with. I've ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2016
2 points

I know for sure that I never stuttered before because I had speech therapy when I was a kid because I had a slight lisp, and the speech therapist would have picked up on it. When I was in high school,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterDec 16, 2016
13 points

Yeah, because it's so easy to not give a shit about taking 10 seconds to pronounce a syllable. Your face is getting red, your muscles are tensed up and you're struggling to get air flowing; you're fac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2016
2 points

Thanks for caring at least, most people just find it funny or stupid or look at me weird when i stutter :/...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 9, 2016
25 points

Subway Stutter.

Subway Stutter. So I fancied a Subway so I went to get a Subway after work. I wasn't really thinking about my stutter at the time. So I went for a Veggie Patty, I chose Italian herb and cheese as my b...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & NamesPhysical Tension
postr/StutterDec 9, 2016
9 points

What's your name ? #Stutterstory

What's your name ? #Stutterstory If you read my last post you know I work as a Pharmacy Assistant here's the link https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/5h9zj9/embarrassing_stutter_story/ So I re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment