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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
0 points

Ok Icharus. Keep flying towards that sun. Hard work is all you need to not make those wings melt in your world....

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

See, I’m not the kind of person who believes in giving motivation I believe in reality. Everyone will have something bad to say about you, and most people don’t care. It’s up to you: either live life...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

Self-belief doesn't just magically appear, it's not something you can turn on or off. I'm suggesting that you take some sort of action to better your life in some small way. Do different things, try n...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Well, you are doing everything right. You are taking action by going to therapy. You are thinking deeply about the big picture. How many of the self-pitying people here won't even think about going to...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
-4 points

Or, they can say: "Here's this terrible thing that happened recently. It really sucked and it makes me feel sad. So I'm now doing \*this thing\* to ensure that I'm doing everything I can to make my l...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

You continue to create a 'think happy thoughts' response when I have not said that at all. I've said 'get busy and put some gruelling effort into your life to make it better.' I am quite an older pe...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
5 points

Reality is going to absolutely rock your shit if you think that it just works that way. You will change as a person, you will age, and will die. Self improvement is finite. Eventually there will be a ...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
7 points

I don't think you're wrong but I also think you're generalizing to far in the other direction here. I get upset at the incel streak this sub has too, but part of the appeal is that it presents a for...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
2 points

Choosing a 'poor me' attitude is a form of ruining your own life. It's like if some set out to make someone's life miserable by preventing them from taking action to change their life. This is what yo...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

Happiness is nice to want and wish for but some of us will never get that happy ending. Sometimes existing in the grey is all we have. Most stutterers have tried many things to remain positive and was...

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postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
5 points

How tf have i not yet taken my life

How tf have i not yet taken my life Every day i ask myself how I am still tolerating this shit. How ive not yet shot myself. I see people do it bcs of waay less problems like relationships, losing a j...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
1 points

How tf have I not yet offed myself

How tf have I not yet offed myself Every day i ask myself how I am still tolerating this shit. How ive not yet shot myself. I see people do it bcs of waay less problems like relationships, losing a jo...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2025
-8 points

Oh, I guess all those people laughing at me and doors closing in my face and those lonely nights and feeling ostracised mean nothing? Nor does the hours, days, weeks, and years of work I put in to mak...

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postr/StutterOct 7, 2025
19 points

It’s not your stutter that’s ruining your life, it’s your attitude

It’s not your stutter that’s ruining your life, it’s your attitude I’ve had a stutter my whole life. I’ve been bullied for it, mocked for it, rejected for it, and left out because of it. You name some...

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Hope & MotivationHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 6, 2025
38 points

Im so sick and tired of seeing people getting criticized on this sub for not lying to themselves, get a FUCKING GRIP ON REALITY PLEASE!!!!!!!!

Im so sick and tired of seeing people getting criticized on this sub for not lying to themselves, get a FUCKING GRIP ON REALITY PLEASE!!!!!!!! The , you say something even remotely real, based on YOUR...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
0 points

I'm too short! I'm too tall! I'm too fat! I'm too skinny! My nose is too big! My nose is too small! It's always complaints about something you can't fix - instead of taking responsibility of wha...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
1 points

I can’t say I haven’t. Ever since a kid up until adulthood I’ve questioned why I talk like this while everybody else around me talks so clearly and freely. Literally yesterday I was questioning everyt...

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
4 points

Bro The thing is, even person in wheel chair can live a life. But I am not that kind of person, I know my capabilities, If I have to live this pathetic life, I will not....

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commentr/StutterOct 6, 2025
4 points

I PROMISE you, people are not thinking “he has a stutter, remember not to talk with him”. No rational person thinks this and even if they do, they are never a person you want to be talking with in th...

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postr/StutterOct 6, 2025
34 points

No friends and no girlfriend

No friends and no girlfriend I am 26m. In past making friends are hardest things for me, in school, i had zero friends. In college I had zero friends in frist three years, but made two friends in last...

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