commentr/StutterOctober 6, 2025

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I'm too short! I'm too tall! I'm too fat! I'm too skinny! My nose is too big! My nose is too small! It's always complaints about something you can't fix - instead of taking responsibility of what you can fix. I've met many incels who complain about this and that and everything else - but they don't even shower regularly or brush their teeth. They make absolutely zero effort to make themselves presentable. And they \*choose\* to wallow in self-pity rather than choosing to go out and do interesting things and develop pastimes that move them in different social circles. No, they \*choose\* to instead mope around, don't shower, and blame everyone else. It has nothing to do with your stutter. I'm 100% convinced even if you spoke fluently you'd still be repellent to others because of your whiney, boring, 'poor me' attitude. You are \*choosing\* to live in misery and that won't change until you make better choices.

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Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability

Subthemes

Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception