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commentr/StutterJun 15, 2019
8 points

Covert stuttering is not the ability to turn off a stutter. It's a strategy of word substitution and omittance that is used by some to attempt to hide a stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 15, 2019
5 points

New to this sub and I have a few questions

New to this sub and I have a few questions First off, I have a stutter. I've had it for as long as I can remember. I'm bilingual and I stutter in both languages. Everyone I talk to knows I have a stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2019
2 points

The annoying part is that they don't look at you when you stutter? For me, this can be very disappointing and it can give me the same thoughts you have. But also, for me it's easier to talk with peopl...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2019
6 points

Look people in the eyes while you talk to them. You’ll start to notice that they are interested in what you say and that they don’t actually pity you or any of that because you stutter....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
2 points

I understand exactly what you’re saying and it’s so annoying. It’s like people don’t know that we already know that we’re stuttering...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2019
2 points

They absolutely do. I always give a fair warning before the interview as well, but generally haven't had a problem. Working with customers, phone calls, etc is horribly terrifying at first, but I've...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2019
2 points

Same thing. I'm from Italy [M 23], and i too have a mild stutter, that i always hide with quick word swaps, pauses and accurately placed "uhms". When you stutter for 16 years you start to come up w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 11, 2019
14 points

My baby

My baby Long time lurker here. Been a stutter my whole life. So has my brother. I’m worried my baby will too. He is clocking in on his 12th day on this earth this morning. I know statistically stutter...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

I never thought about my stuttering as “covert stuttering” until you made this post. I always thought of it as being a closet stutterer. Covert stuttering is a more accurate definition of what I’ve be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

Thank you. It's nice to know that there are other covert stutterers in this sub reddit. I mostly see overt stutteres here who are fighting through and dealing with their stuttering which is really nic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
3 points

same boat tbh. it’s exhausting to try to hide your real voice from everybody. i’ve only opened up to a small number of people but mostly every time i’ve had to tell somebody it’s been a positive exper...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
1 points

Thank you for this. Being a covert stutterer is weird. I feel like I'm wearing a mask, pretending to be someone I'm not....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
6 points

Damn, this is so relatable. I have a mild to moderate block that tends to heighten in scenarios that make me nervous or second guess my speech (aka taking food to a table and saying the names of said ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2019
2 points

I have habits of being covert, and have most of my life. I struggled a lot during in school. I didn't talk much, even in college. It have just recently decided to seek help to start accept myself. I m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 10, 2019
14 points

Covert stuttering.

Covert stuttering. I've been a covert stutterer almost all my life and now that I'm 24 years old I'm having a really hard time coming out as a stutterer because I have been so used to hiding it. It's ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2019
1 points

It helps me to tell people i’m a person who stutters so that they can expect it and know what’s going on and are less likely to judge you. plus then you don’t have extra added pressure of trying to pa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 8, 2019
15 points

Get GF with Stutter?

Get GF with Stutter? Ok, just so you know, I am not desperate. I want to talk to the girl when I see her after summer. But for now, I don't want to, kinda scared that she might not like me because my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJun 7, 2019
15 points

I need your assistance

I need your assistance If this helps at all, I have a moderate stutter, and have been stuttering since I could speak. Hey, everyone. I cannot live like this. I can't make friends, because when I tal...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJun 7, 2019
34 points

Do you sometimes imagine how certain social interactions would be like if you didn’t stutter?

Do you sometimes imagine how certain social interactions would be like if you didn’t stutter? In my mind I’m so social, I can see myself talk so much to everyone but then reality knocks on the door an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 5, 2019
1 points

Some advice...

Some advice... Need to build confidence before school reopens. There will be introduction sessions and cant say my name or anything without stuttering. I don't know why i feel ashamed of stuttering.Gu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment