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postr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
13 points

I'm scared to tell people at work I (block) stutter.

I'm scared to tell people at work I (block) stutter. First off I'm really grateful for this forum. I have read that it's better to tell people about your stutter than hide it. I have told a few peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2018
3 points

Yes, very much. The first time I saw it I nearly backed right out. I only didn't because I was at a crossroads of pulling myself out of a major slump and made myself read some posts. I hate porky the ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
16 points

Does anyone else find the "Welcome to /r/Sssssstutter!" in the sidebar a bit triggering?

Does anyone else find the "Welcome to /r/Sssssstutter!" in the sidebar a bit triggering? I know it's meant to make us all relax about this but I've had too many situations in my life where people have...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
1 points

Never apologize for venting. I'm 24 and stutter. I can empathize with you quite well because I feel the same way. Low self-esteem, being overly self-critical, and the mental distress is familiar to me...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2018
2 points

I can relate to your pain. I use to get bullied over my stuttering. I dealt with it in some form up through 9th/10th grade. There were times where I’d let it bother me. However as the years went by, ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
8 points

Having a hard time pronouncing big words

Having a hard time pronouncing big words I'm going to school for pharmacy technician and I am having a hard time pronouncing large words such as drug names and diseases. I get made fun of by my peers ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
1 points

I rerecord so many clips because of my stutter. It kills me every time I fuck up and have to restart. Mentally taxing...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2018
2 points

I wish I knew. I believe my great grandfather had a stutter, and others in my family. At the root I think it's genetical, but it has turned into a fear issue. My immense fear, shame and embarrassme...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2018
14 points

I am suffering at work

I am suffering at work My stutter/block has gotten really bad lately. Ever since I've started this job (back in April 2017) I have noticed I am having a harder time with my speech that I didn't really...

School & WorkCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
3 points

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired

Feeling helpless and frustrated and tired I’ve had a stutter since I was a child and I gradually got over it until about 8 months ago. It’s come back into my life with a vengeance. It’s been so bad th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2018
1 points

I am 26, a male. And hate the fact that most times i can't even say my name. I hate being misunderstood as a whole person because of it. I hate being misinterpreted in my body language and eye contact...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentTrauma & Psychological+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
31 points

I am so sick of employers looking at me like I'm mentally handicapped.

I am so sick of employers looking at me like I'm mentally handicapped. I just left a interview for a overnight stocker at a local grocery store. It is a bottom of the barrel type of work. The hour of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2018
3 points

Her books are much better/clearer than that talk. I listen to them on audible. For me vulnerability and shame resilience goes beyond problems with stuttering. However I do acknowledge addressing my st...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2018
7 points

I almost heal my stutter, there is hope

I almost heal my stutter, there is hope Hi everyone, before all what you read into my post is come from my personal experience, I'm not a doctor or a specialist, I'm just a guy 28 years old and I'm st...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Energy & Biological RhythmsStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2018
6 points

If you still have shame and embarrassment about your stutter, it's hard and there's no quick easy answer. But even if you have shame and their mocking feels bad, at least you aren't that lame of a per...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2018
6 points

High school can be tough. I don't have many people mock me like that, but I did have a few later in life and I just looked at them like they're a piece of shit and I couldn't care less about them. Any...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2018
14 points

Getting made fun of today

Getting made fun of today So today I was sitting in band in a practice room with other band members and one of them asked where I went to elementary school. It starts with an “M” and stuttered on it....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2018
9 points

Reducing stutter, speaking slowly but how to increase my discipline?

Reducing stutter, speaking slowly but how to increase my discipline? I have a question. What should I do in my situation? __________ Situation: I never stutter when I speak very slow. I want to ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2018
10 points

Embarrasing moment

Embarrasing moment At the orientation I was asked by my English major lecturer to give a few words on "What I like most about the University" with the intent to motivate the new intakes (undergraduat...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2018
6 points

With stuttering, it’s very hard to tell jokes or stories because blocks can kill the momentum. This can be very frustrating with it happening repeatedly. I experience this when I’m in class and want t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightShame & Embarrassment+3 more