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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

My stutter gets worse with the feedback loop of how I perceive my speech at the moment. If I have to speak loudly, I guess I can notice my voice shaking or breaking, or the blocks becoming more pronou...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

Feel you on the shallow breathing for sure, I’ve noticed breathing is huge too. And grab those loud overwhelming environments do get stressful…worst thing for me is ordering a drink at a loud bar...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

yes, this is exactly my experience too. same with being quiet for a long time, it feels like my speech flows better first thing in the morning. had a date with a girl at a somewhat loud restaurant las...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

I work in the entertainment industry as a manager. My job requires me to meet with labels, brands, publishers, venue owners and more. My stutter isn’t severe but people recognize it. I used to work in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
11 points

I have stutter and I have noticed for a while now that my stutter gets worse when I am under stress, not only at that moment but my overall life....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
2 points

Same, if i speak for a long time my breathing becomes shallow and that is really bad if you have a stutter. In a loud enviroment i get easily overwhelmed by the noise, that puts me in a weird anxious...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

That would to stressful, I've spent my life avoiding making or receiving calls as much as I can.. I dread my phone ringing.....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2024
1 points

thank you! i think it is true that a lot of people are judgemental so it might be good for him to just not be judged by somebody....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
1 points

Why do long speeches create a feedback of anxiety and stress for you, do you think? Does it differ between when you’re talking to someone new or someone familiar in these situations?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
5 points

Same. Long speeches create a feedback of anxiety and stress which makes prolonged fluency difficult. Loud environments also cause you to increase your projection which puts your speech in a non-ideal ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
3 points

I absolutely get it, I work in customer service and mine too isn’t terrible but talking to strangers and on the phone is when it’s the worst. I haven’t been in this subreddit very long at all but just...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
5 points

Our every interaction is like looking at my younger self but I still find that I do not know what the “right” thing to do is!

Our every interaction is like looking at my younger self but I still find that I do not know what the “right” thing to do is! For context: I am 16 and my school makes me volunteer every week. My volun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
1 points

I feel like that from time to time. When I do though, I try to remind myself that's mainly my own brain telling me that. Sure it may be harder for us, but it's doable nonetheless....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 7, 2024
6 points

Dreams

Dreams Does anyone else experience really vivid dreams of yourself not being able to get a single syllable out for hours upon hours it feels like? I wake up extremely winded and feel like there’s a to...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/stutteringMar 6, 2024
1 points

I’d Genuinely Die Over Giving A Presentation

I’d Genuinely Die Over Giving A Presentation I saw a similar Reddit post on r/Stuttering. I’m 15 and I’m genuinely suffering from my stutter. It’s gotten to the point where I’d be deathly afraid of sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

Speech therapy is great! But I feel like psychotherapy might be helpful for you, too. For me, my stutter became less of an obstacle in everyday life once I worked through some of the trauma that came ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTrauma & PsychologicalSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
14 points

Love for you buddy. It will improve for sure. I´m 30+ male been stuttering since 5 years old. A little advice that has work for me is understanding that the judgement of the people is not really the...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 6, 2024
27 points

Id rather die than speak

Id rather die than speak At a point where id rather rope than face another person, particularly the judgement. I'm 18 and I don't really understand how or why things ended up this way. It is somethi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High DistressStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

I struggle with service settings as well! I think for me it’s because of a couple things. A big thing is that customer service settings seem to be the main place where I face discrimination now that...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
9 points

Retail or food service tends to have a context around speed. For myself, that is usually what trips up stuttering. There is a long line in a coffee shop, you are up next, and the person behind the cou...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/Flight