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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2025
1 points

Huge win actually. I feel like someone is putting a knife into my heart when I have to talk on the phone, especially phone calls that are not personal. But in general also, I feel I would die if I ha...

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commentr/StutterJun 23, 2025
1 points

That's completely valid, having a speech disfluency can make it insanely hard to show off your personality if you have one and make you come across as boring and having people message you first and in...

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commentr/StutterJun 22, 2025
9 points

I've been thinking about it this way too and it's totally changed my perspective. For example I'm very skilled at drawing and find it a breeze to draw people anatomically correctly – I'm "fluent" in i...

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commentr/StutterJun 21, 2025
4 points

And if you stammer a bit just let it flow naturally and get back to speaking. This is a big job don’t let your anxiety interfere with your bankroll homie 💰. Ik it’s easier said than done but just do...

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postr/StutterJun 20, 2025
5 points

Career advice for a stutterer.

Career advice for a stutterer. Hello, people of Reddit.   I (34m) am searching for any resources/advice/whatever regarding finding work as someone who stutters.   A little background:   I have ...

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postr/StutterJun 19, 2025
48 points

A small win — no longer scared of phone calls

A small win — no longer scared of phone calls I’m 25M and started working a year ago. When I joined, I was extremely anxious. My job required me to talk to people over phone calls, and that was one of...

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postr/StutterJun 18, 2025
15 points

I just can't date or have a life It feels like because of my stutter.

I just can't date or have a life It feels like because of my stutter. I don't know how to deal with it at 21 and I've never had a girlfriend and I would love to date and get out and be more social and...

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postr/StutterJun 17, 2025
7 points

Harassment or what?

Harassment or what? Hi I’m uber eats driver, I wanted to share an experience I had and get your opinions on it. I’m located in the San Fernando Valley and I accepted an order from Del Taco. When I a...

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commentr/StutterJun 17, 2025
1 points

>The stuttering is just the surface level issue. Waking up perfectly fluent tomorrow wouldn't solve this issue. I believe for many people, it would solve a lot of the issues over time. You could hold...

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postr/StutterJun 17, 2025
5 points

positive aspects of stuttering (i guess)

positive aspects of stuttering (i guess) Sometimes I try to convince myself that my stuttering has positive aspects. One of those positive aspects is that people's true colors come out. Do they really...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2025
4 points

Thank you for sharing this so honestly. It really means a lot to hear from someone who truly understands. I hope one day you get to order exactly what you want at the drive-through without any worry. ...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2025
17 points

I am 30+ and wake up every day imagining how my life would be if I did not stutter. I get anxious going through drive-throughs when I can't order what I want....

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postr/StutterJun 12, 2025
5 points

My stutter so bad I can’t think of the last time I had a conversation like I literally don’t talk anymore anymore when person come up to talk to me I’ll answer with like a word or 2 then just be quiet and it became a habit to where I don’t even have conversations no more who can relate

My stutter so bad I can’t think of the last time I had a conversation like I literally don’t talk anymore anymore when person come up to talk to me I’ll answer with like a word or 2 then just be quiet...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2025
7 points

I’m 25 and have been stuttering since kindergarten. Mine is very severe, and it’s honestly ruined a lot of my life. I have long speech blocks on the majority of words I try to say, and sometimes I eve...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2025
2 points

It definitely takes alot of mental fortitude to go on for years & years with this curse. But ppl still call us mentally weak bc the pain gets to us eventually. They cant comprehend what it feels like ...

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postr/StutterJun 6, 2025
6 points

Thinking of to stay single and learn sign language

Thinking of to stay single and learn sign language I don't think there's any one who have the patience to stay with someone who stutters in this modern world and if they do it's unlikely so rare. I'm ...

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commentr/StutterJun 5, 2025
1 points

I'm glad that reading aloud works for you! Personally, I find that doing actual tasks is more effective than reading aloud when it comes to reducing social anxiety....

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2025
5 points

I always just give my drivers license and insurance card to the front desk person and don’t even attempt to say my name or anything. They usually ask for it anyway so I just do it first thing....

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postr/StutterJun 4, 2025
10 points

I hate stuttering

I hate stuttering Can't even fucking defend myself when someone tries to make fun of me or embarrass me. I'm still thinking about it even after more than two weeks. I can't even study or do anything c...

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commentr/StutterJun 4, 2025
3 points

It can be very difficult to not feel defective. My stuttering has gotten to be so bad I have to type out my answers to questions a lot of the time. It’s humiliating but what can you do?...

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